Can a former colleague get married without going? How to refuse?
Former colleagues, it depends on how your relationship is. You can still go if you have a good relationship. Judging from what you said, the situation should be average, just find an excuse to push it off. Just find a reason, make an excuse for yourself and wish her happiness. Because of China, everyone pays attention to reciprocity. Go ahead, and hang a present. You think it's not worth it if you can't get it back. So ... since you don't want to go, why go against your will?