Language taboos at weddings 1-2
1、? The wedding must have cost you a lot of money! ?
More and more reports about celebrity sky-high wedding expenses are seen in the media, and people seem to be used to putting price labels on wedding dresses, banquets, cakes and so on. But for most ordinary people, perhaps the wedding budget is not as abundant as you think, so it is best to keep silent about financial issues. Do not hold? Should the red envelope be equivalent to the price of the wedding banquet? Such an old concept, it is best to choose the right gift according to the intimate relationship with the bride and groom.
2、? Next thing you know, you're going to have a baby, right?
With love, there is a home. Everyone knows the meaning of marriage, but what will happen next depends on the bride and groom themselves. Save money to buy a house, pursue higher career goals, or complete other life plans. Everyone has his own life rhythm and values, and not everyone thinks that children are a necessity for marriage. Many brides and grooms may have been busy preparing for the wedding, so don't discuss life events such as giving birth to offspring with others.
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Language taboos at weddings 3-4
3、? I didn't expect you to settle down, remember?
Even if you have known the bride for many years, you can still learn a lot about her youth, or shake out many campus legends about the groom's debauchery in college. A wedding is by no means a good time to talk about these old sesame seeds and rotten millet. It is very inappropriate to talk about the private affairs of the bride and groom with other guests attending the wedding. If the other person is a colleague or elder of the bride and groom, you will undoubtedly be blacklisted by the bride and groom. On such a grand and formal occasion as a wedding, it is inevitable that revealing one's secrets will make people feel disgusted.
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Language taboos at weddings 5-7
5、? Why didn't XXX come to the wedding?
If you don't see the person you think should be at the wedding, there must be a reason. Maybe the invited party has no time to attend, or maybe the bride and groom didn't put him on the guest list at all. In any case, the wisest thing to do is to keep silent. If the bride and groom didn't invite relatives or friends, there must have been some in-depth discussions beforehand, and the wedding is by no means a good occasion to repeat this conversation.
6、? There are too many divorced people now, you know?
Divorce seems to be no longer a taboo topic. No matter how you feel about statistics, the family life of the bride and groom, or your personal experience, don't bring up such a disappointing topic at the wedding. No matter what ups and downs they have experienced, isn't it the happiest thing that the bride and groom can exchange vows under the witness of relatives and friends and grow old together?
7、? Tonight must be very important, right? Hehe?
Don't get to the bottom of the bride and groom's private time. If you want to express how grand the wedding is, say something that can't go wrong, such as the food is good, the band is great, and everyone is happy. We should not care about other people's privacy, but congratulate the bride and groom on their wedding success.
We all know that the wedding is the most important occasion in a person's life, so as friends or relatives of the newlyweds, you all want them to be happy, so you must pay attention to attending the wedding. It's best not to talk nonsense about these words.