Personally, I think this marriage custom is a bad habit, which represents people's discrimination against older unmarried young women. Everyone has the right to pursue love, and everyone has the right to control marriage. We can't come to the conclusion that women must get married at a certain age because of the inherent concept of society. Not getting married is unfilial, not getting married is a psychological problem, and it is actually discrimination against women. It is 2 1 century, and everyone's ideas can't stay in the past, let alone be influenced by some narrow social customs. Respecting everyone's choice of life is a basic quality. You may not understand, but you can't discriminate against each other. It is unreasonable for my sister to get married and her unmarried sister to go upstairs to hide in the news, but this is a superstition that has been circulating for a long time in China society, and it is difficult to change it overnight.

It happened in Guigang, Guangxi. Ms. Wei is 3 1 year old this year. There are five brothers and sisters in her family. She is the eldest, followed by two younger brothers and two younger sisters. But now everyone is married except her, so she has climbed the roof four times. It turns out that there is a custom in the village, because young and old are orderly. My sister got married before my sister. What's her name? Too much? To this end, my sister needs to avoid it, because she is afraid that her fate will collide with the new couple. Because of this custom, once the brother and sister get married, she will go upstairs to escape.

The whole thing spread to the internet, causing quite a controversy. Most netizens are disgusted with this bad habit. The main reason is that my sister got married. Not only is she not allowed to go for a ride with her, but even she can only stand upstairs and watch from a distance. This is so unkind. You know, this is a big event in each other's lives. As a close relative, you should send blessings and don't be a bystander. And the so-called? Fate? It is completely feudal superstition, and young people with modern education should not believe it. But someone asked the elder sister, and she said she wouldn't mind too much, because it was a custom in the village.

Of course, some people look at this matter from another angle. Ms. Wei is not married at the age of 3/kloc-0, so she will naturally be pointed at by other people in the village. Now her parents let her go upstairs to hide, perhaps to protect her self-esteem. After all, my brothers and sisters have found happiness, and they are still alone. It's gonna be a little uncomfortable. Perhaps Ms. Wei herself wants to stay away from this occasion. But in any case, this bad habit must be corrected, and it cannot be treated differently just because you are old and unmarried. This is naked discrimination.