Customs are different, and some places think that an elder can't hold a happy event within three months after his death. Some places say that no happy events will be held within one year after the death of elders; In some places, elders should be filial within three years of their death and cannot get married.

Due to different local customs, it depends on the specific situation. Moreover, when an elder dies, there is actually no express stipulation that everyone can get married as long as the time is right. However, when choosing a wedding date, it is still necessary to communicate with the elders at home, because parents will pay more attention to these customs.

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Getting married is a troublesome thing, and it takes a long time for both parties to make preparations in the early stage, including choosing a date, booking a hotel, taking wedding photos, looking for a wedding, renting a wedding car, buying wedding supplies and so on. After everything was ready, the elders in the family died. If the interval is not too short, then it is suggested that everyone hold the wedding according to the previous time after burying the old man.

But in some places, filial piety is very strict. After family members die, they need to be filial for three months or a year, and some will be filial for three years. If the local people pay more attention to this custom, they will postpone the wedding according to the custom, so as not to be pointed at by others.