In the countryside, there is a habit of paying with money, and sometimes everyone has a headache. I remember that when I was young, the money was basically 100 or 200, and now the money is getting higher and higher. Generally speaking, higher money mainly appears at weddings and housewarming banquets. Nowadays, relatives and friends generally need at least 500 yuan to get married. A little closer, it will be thousands. Moving is a great event for rural people. After all, not everyone can buy a house. Now most people buy a house in the city, so the money for moving is generally above 1000 or even more. The closer the relationship, the more money! The following is the general amount of money, such as birthday. In our hometown, birthdays are usually once every ten years, and the average person's birthday is between 200 and 500, but there are more birthdays for family members, such as my parents' birthdays. As a daughter, I spent more than 3000 yuan, less than 4000 yuan, on my parents' 50th birthday. I guess I'll have to wait for my parents' 60th birthday.

Generally speaking, banquets are basically held on National Day, New Year's Day and May Day. And most of them are on the eve of the Spring Festival. Every year, during the Spring Festival or May Day, the family costs three or four thousand yuan. For an ordinary family, three or four thousand yuan is equivalent to two or three months' living expenses in their hometown, so sometimes they are quite helpless in the face of such money. Some old people in the family usually ask their children which one to do business with. For the old people, three or four thousand yuan a month is too much! Sometimes it is equivalent to the salary of a person working outside for more than half a month!