1. Parents are basically conscientious in raising their children (Europe and America 18 years old). For things like getting married and buying a house, if both parents have the ability, there will be more and less. Don't compare too much who pays more and who pays less. Even if nothing happens, there is nothing to complain about.
2, getting married is a big event, so we should do what we can. If the economy is affluent, things will be better booked and banquets will be more expensive. If the economy is tight, the province will have to save. After all, after the wedding reception, you have to live.
3, get married, you are interested in your husband, the rest is not so important. You should also properly understand and tolerate his parents.