The groom's side
Engagement fee:
1. The gift is based on 3. For example, 33,53,65438+100,000 3. The suffix of the bride price must be "3", which is homophonic with "fate" in Fuzhou dialect, symbolizing having children after marriage)
2. Three golds (gold ring, gold necklace, gold bracelet)
The man gives money to the woman's mother, and grandma has a stomachache. It means that grandma gives birth to mother's money, and mother gives birth to daughter's money. It's usually 33 thousand.
3. Money for men to buy clothes for women. Usually 3800 or 5800.
Wedding price:
1. One male and one female, alive. If the hen has never laid an egg, both chickens should wrap their feet in red paper and tie them with red lines.
2. Line surface 10 kg is divided into two parts of 5 kg, and the red line needs to be fixed by special binding.
3. Wedding candy 10 kg, divided into two packages of 5 kg.
4. Two cigarettes.
5. Four-color dishes.
The woman replied:
1. A hen.
2. A pair of stockings, the longer the better. According to Fuzhou dialect, stockings mean longevity, and I hope the man will live longer.
3. A pair of trousers with a gold jewelry in the pocket. According to Fuzhou, pants with gold are a treasury, and I hope the man has money.
4. Half a line.
5. Half like candy.
6. A pack of cigarettes.
7. Half the four-color dishes.
8. Half of the dowry given by the man to the woman is given to the man.
Bride's side
Dowry:
A pair of red washbasins
A red BB bath pool
1 bottle of shower gel and 2 bottles of shampoo,
1 vase and 2 flowers.
Two cups,
Two toothbrushes,
2 toothpastes,
Two towels,
Two combs,
Two bars of soap,
2 pairs of slippers,
Three-foot-three red cloth (red cloth should be wrapped in a bucket)
A red bucket with a lid (you should put jujube, baby and wedding flowers in it)
Five flowers for men and women (four pairs for four seasons, four pairs for women's family, three pairs for noodles, three bowls of noodles, one pair for each bowl, one pair for barrels, five pairs for men's family, three pairs for noodles, one pair for mother-in-law and one pair for daughter-in-law when adding flowers).
Peanut, jujube, lotus seed, longan,
Red bedclothes four-piece suit
Two sets of pajamas
Red straight umbrella (non-folding umbrella)
A pair of dolls
Round mirrors and jewelry boxes (remember not to square mirrors)
reserve clause
Happy characters on doors and windows
Two red boxes.
In the process of getting married, there are many traditional taboos, so you may wish to refer to them.
(1) Don't get married in the ghost month, that is, the seventh month of the lunar calendar.
(2) avoid getting married in June of the lunar calendar, that is, being a wife for half a month.
(3) When installing the bed, put the bed in the correct position and avoid facing the sharp corner of the desk closet or any object.
(4) After the bed is fixed, until the eve of the wedding night, the prospective groom should avoid sleeping alone in the new bed, and can find a zodiac to sleep with underage boys, such as Long Xiao.
(5) On the day of engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who are engaged are not allowed to fan their fans, otherwise it means breaking up.
After the wedding reception, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise it means remarriage.
(7) The clothes and dresses worn by the bride on the wedding day should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth at home.
The more the bride cries when she leaves home, the better.
(9) On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, all aunts and sisters-in-law should avoid seeing each other off, because "aunt" is homophonic with "lonely" and "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweeping", which is unlucky.
(10) On the way to the wedding, if you meet another wedding motorcade, it is called "beaming", which will offset each other's blessings, so it is necessary for the matchmakers of both sides to set off firecrackers or exchange flowers to resolve it.
On the wedding day, no one is allowed to touch the new bed until going to bed at night. On that day, the bride is not allowed to touch the bed.
On the wedding day, the bride can't lie down, otherwise she will be ill in bed all the year round.
Because children cry easily, they should be forbidden to enter the wedding hall, because it is unlucky to cry in the hall.
When the bride enters the man's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and cross it.
(15) If the zodiac is a tiger or a widow, you are not allowed to watch the ceremony or enter the new house.
The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, which will make her feel ashamed of her husband.
(17) On the day of mothering, newlyweds must leave their parents' home before sunset, and they must never spend the night at their parents' home. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately to avoid bumping into their parents' house and making them unlucky.
Don't take part in any wedding, funeral or celebration within four months of marriage.
Don't spend the night outside within four months of marriage.