Statement: I am married, and I hosted a banquet in June 20 13, for both men and women.

1. For example, are the gifts collected separately or together? Parents of both sides said that they would give us the gift money when they received it, but they didn't want it. ) Let's split the gift money. There is not much relationship between the man and the woman, which can save a lot of unnecessary trouble. After all, in the past, the human feelings of both sides were paid by both sides, and now I know how much I have paid back.

As for giving you a gift or something else, it depends on how you discuss it with your parents. 2. How should catering money, wedding and various expenses be appropriate? (My family has about 20 tables, and his family has about 15 tables. ) Can the banquet money be paid with the gift money received at this wedding reception? My suggestion is that the man is in charge of the man, the woman and the man share a part (for example, the man buys a banquet list for relatives), and the drinks are settled together. It's not awkward at all.

This is not a lot of money, which can show that the man holds the wedding banquet and the wife has the sincerity to do this wedding well. Actually, that's what I did, and the effect was quite good.

For example, the money for the wedding is paid by the man. After all, this is mainly for the man. His parents' attitude is to let us do whatever we want, but my father doesn't quite agree with us because they haven't met and are afraid of gossiping with relatives and friends.

In fact, since his parents can do whatever they want, your father doesn't agree, because your father wants your baby daughter to get married, so beautiful. In fact, you have to understand the intention of being a parent, but you still have to do their ideological work. Just listen to your relatives and friends, it doesn't necessarily affect your consciousness of hosting a wedding reception. In fact, many times you have to explain to your parents or communicate with your husband.

You got it? 4. What are the advantages and disadvantages of two families together or what should we pay attention to? How can we communicate with our parents better? The advantages are all visible: 1. The scene is big. You can spare time and energy. 3. Save unnecessary repetitive expenses.

The disadvantage is actually talking about money. When both sides talk about money, they will hurt their feelings. Of course, you and your husband are the main body of this. Understand each other. After all, it is not easy for both parents to help you when you get married.

It is impossible not to say a bad word. Try to be considerate and understand each other's feelings and moods. So I won't say so much, these are my feelings, and that's what I came to tell you.

I hope it helps you.

2. Wedding wine, marriage or wine sharing?

Your family is basically hard to surface. Everyone should get together and have a good time. It also supports a face. If the woman is just a girlfriend, you can still talk to her. After all, her youth and emotional commitment are there. It is impossible to make such an emotional move in a moment of anger. But if there is a woman's family, I don't think it is convenient to put it in your hometown, and you have to take care of your future wife's emotions. I suggest being sensible or opening the two ends separately, so as to avoid it. You can avoid some unnecessary troubles and entanglements and take care of both sides to the greatest extent. If you are arbitrary at home, there may be many problems in setting up reception schedules at different tables. The main reason is that the woman may be difficult to take care of, but if you really love her as you describe, you can actually make greater concessions. You can put the main wedding wine scheme and elaborate design in the place set by the woman, so that they can see your sincerity. Mainly take care of her emotions and communicate with her more.

3. How to arrange the banquet at the wedding? Six points for attention make the wedding banquet regretless

What should I do if I get married? First, do a good job in reception.

Guests should be divided into several categories, such as classmates, colleagues and friends of the newly married wife, colleagues and friends of the man's parents, relatives of the man and relatives of the woman. In this large group of people, we should first find one or two people, know which area is what guests, especially the table led by the unit, and warmly welcome the newcomers. We should also mobilize some very good friends to help greet other relatives and friends.

What should I do if I get married? Second, count the guests.

According to the above method, after counting the guests, you can probably book the number of tables, and some tables with few people leave one or two mobile tables.

What should I do if I get married? Third, I specialize in articles.

Gifts and cigarettes to be given to guests at the banquet can be placed in a more obvious position first, and it is best to find a trusted friend to help look after them first. When you see that there are no drinks at any table, you should also take the initiative to ask the guests if they need more drinks. This can be done by the hotel waiter, and of course, the extra drinks should be put away.

What should I do if I get married? 4. More tidbits.

When the wedding is going on, there can be some small programs such as performances or lottery, which will make the guests more appetizing and the scene will be more lively.