Make an appointment first (call people in the countryside), and the scene can be big or small, generally controlled below 8 tables. Suppose the woman comes to four tables with 40 people, and each of you gives 100 money, and the man also wants 1 packs of cigarettes. In addition, brother-in-law, grandpa and grandma should pay more, so you spend 7000 yuan more. Plus eight tables of banquet money, each table is 500, which is 4000 yuan. Then, the bride price should be given, the average family is 40 thousand to 80 thousand, and the poor are generally 1 10 thousand to 30 thousand. Rich, generally in 6.5438+10,000 to 200,000. Very rich people have no bottom. Then some gold, usually diamond rings, plus necklaces, earrings and bracelets add up to 10000. Don't buy a bracelet if you want to save money. But the ring is necessary.
Take the wedding dress. 2500 yuan.
Then there is marriage. The banquet depends on how many tables you have (the number of tables for the woman should also be counted, and the money should be paid, but the gift money is not yours, but the parents'). Suppose the woman has 20 tables, each with 500 yuan. Just 1 0,000 yuan. Then see if your wedding car is a friend's or a rental. According to a friend's calculation, there are at least 6 cars, each with 4 packs of cigarettes (25 packs), and each car is 100 yuan. It needs 600 yuan. Everyone in the car must have at least 2 packs of cigarettes, which is 36 packs of cigarettes according to 18 people, 900 yuan. That means cars and fireworks 1500 yuan.
Please take a picture (if you call a friend, it looks like 200)
If you want to make a phone call at the bride's house, it is about 1000 yuan.
You should receive an umbrella gift when you enter the house, and give it to 600.
All right, we'll make 2000 for the rest of the money.
My husband's guests are 20 tables, and the banquet fee is 10000. But this gift is yours. Generally, you can receive more than 20,000 to 30,000 gifts.
In this way, it takes about 25 thousand to get married, which is based on the woman's 20 tables of banquet.
55,000 people are engaged and 25,000 people are married, making a total of 80,000 people. This is the contribution of ordinary urban families. You can receive a gift of 20 thousand. The total expenditure is 60 thousand. Then look at the woman's dowry. Generally speaking, the bride will pay you back as much as you give the bride price, and the rich will marry more. A person who has no money and is stingy with his daughter as a tool to earn money will not marry her, and the bride price will not be returned to you at all.
Brother, prepare 80 thousand yuan. If the woman is easy to talk to and her family conditions are not very good, she can get 30 thousand.