In Guizhou, a news that the groom was rejected by the bride's family because the underwear he bought was not suitable was found online. The wedding company even told the whole story at the hotel banquet ordered by the groom. Netizens have been talking about this, some think that the bride's family's practice is inappropriate, some think that there must be other things that the two sides have not reached before, and some think that the two sides may have no feelings at all. In this regard, I think the bride's family's approach is not necessarily inhuman. The main reasons are as follows.

First, the bride suspects that the groom's family did it on purpose. According to online news, the bride once asked her to buy underwear, but her mother-in-law disagreed and insisted on preparing it herself. As a result, the underwear she bought was the smallest and could not be worn at all. The bride suspects that this is intentional by the groom's family. There is a custom of wearing little shoes to press each other's heads at weddings in Guizhou. The groom may be deeply influenced by feudal customs. The two sides have been together for a long time. Before the wedding, they had got a marriage certificate. When they get married, they will make a fuss about underwear. The only thing the groom didn't expect was to give the other side a duel, but he didn't expect to kick the hard iron plate.

Second, the bride's attitude and response to the groom are the most important. In response, the bride also said that her underwear was small and she talked to her mother-in-law. She also said that she was working on it. But the groom bluntly can't buy it, so he wears the old one. Many netizens said that this is clear, because they feel that if they get a marriage certificate, the bride has to marry if she marries, and if she doesn't marry, she has to marry. I didn't expect the bride's family to be very thoughtful, and it was impossible for her daughter to suffer such injustice.

Third, a marriage that is not based on mutual respect is unnecessary. Marriage is a happy event, and the marriage of two people should be based on mutual respect and love. The couple in the news are obviously not based on mutual respect, so don't force such a marriage. After this, it is impossible for two people to be together. It can only be said that feudal marriage customs are harmful to people. Some old people think they are smart, but they actually harm others and themselves.

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