My future mother-in-law, starting from the object of our place, does not ask anything, wedding photos, weddings. She hasn't taken the initiative to meet her in-laws for two years, and there are three others. Getting married is a lifetime thing, although there are many divorces now. Open-minded, but divorce is not a good thing Marriage basically emptied all the money. Let's just say. I suggest you talk it over with her. Where is the root of the reason? If you still feel this way, let it be. I would rather eat less than eat more. There must be something for you.