Normal. I come from Ningxia. Eight or nine years ago, our gift money was 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, and last year it was more than 100,000 yuan. But the county next door has fewer gifts and more gold. But we will give some back to that person. More than 30 thousand is not much, but marriage, I think, is not measured by money. The woman wants too many colorful gifts, and the man can only borrow them if he can't afford them, but you have to live in the past and be in debt. As for the man, don't haggle over every ounce, 30 thousand is not much. This is my suggestion. I hope it will help the landlord and wish a happy marriage.