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Why do some women want to get married early?
Why do some women want to get married early?

Why do some women want to get married early? In our daily life, it is not difficult to see that some very young women are married and have children. Many people wonder why they got married so early. Next, I will show you why some women want to get married early.

Why do some women want to get married early?

1. Physical reasons: A family definitely needs children. Women in their thirties are older women, which are not good for children and health, so they always want to get married and have children early.

2. Bride dream: Every woman has her own bride dream. It is perfect for them to put on a wedding dress when they are beautiful and get married with the blessing of their relatives.

3. Parents' pressure: In China society, parents' face is sometimes more important than children's happiness, and there are always various kinds of marriage urges, which inevitably bring great pressure to children.

4. Want to have a family: Although two people are in a family when they are in love, it is always illegal. Girls always want to feel at home, and weddings can give them this feeling.

5, security: love is always love, marriage is always guaranteed, at least protected by law, which is also one of the reasons.

6. Less selectivity: When a woman is older, her selectivity to the other half will be greatly reduced. There is a worry that it will be difficult to get married when you are old.

Why do some women want to get married early? Is it better to get married early or late?

It is certain that there will be livelihood disputes when you get married early, but after a few years, you will find that you get more than others when you get through the most difficult time; Moreover, if you get married late, you won't worry about life, but you have long lost the joy and impulse of that year. This kind of marriage is more about living more. In fact, it is your choice to get married early or late. No one can interfere with you. No matter what you choose, it is your life. In this case, you should face the people and things in your life well. One day, looking back, you will be grateful for your original decision.

What is the difference between early marriage and late marriage?

1, 23 years old, both of them were young and impulsive when they got married. So after marriage, they had to quarrel and divorce at every turn. Perhaps this kind of bridge is being staged in many relationships. Two people often worry about money. Qian Qian's husband has to pay the mortgage and provide them with living expenses. Sometimes this is not enough, and Qian Qian has to pay some subsidies. The two struggled together, but life was very tight in the first few years, especially after having their first child two years later.

But they are young after all, and there are not only troubles in their lives, but also many pleasures and motivations belonging to young people. After nearly ten years of such a noisy and frugal life, now they are out, their mortgage has been paid off, their two children have gone to school, their jobs are stable and their income is considerable. It can be said that they have passed the most difficult time and want to support each other. Now their lives are on the right track, which is envied by many people.

2. A girl gets married at the age of 30. After graduating from college, she began to work. She has worked hard to get a car and savings. She was introduced to her present husband. The husband she is looking for also has a house and a car. After getting married, she doesn't have to worry about her livelihood. A year later, they had their own children. They said that when they were old, they wanted a child, gave him the best, and had no energy or time to have a second child.

Their married life may be much better than Qian Qian's, but they have long lost the tenderness and happiness of young people. For them, the age is over 30, and they have reached the prime of life, not youth. Therefore, there is not much fun and different feelings in husband and wife's life, just the feelings of the partner they are looking for. They say this' life is good, at least peace of mind.

What are the benefits of early marriage?

1. The earlier you get married, the better your career development.

If you get married and have children in your twenties, both parents may still be young and can help a lot financially, then the life of a young couple with financial support from both parents will be more moist. After the daughter-in-law gives birth to the child, the elderly at home can not only help to take care of the child, but also the young couple can concentrate on their work, which is more conducive to the development of their own careers.

2, get married early and have children early, parents will be happy and suffer less.

Getting married early does not mean that you are not old enough to get married, but it is better to get married early after the legal age for marriage.

The earlier you get married, the lower your wedding expenses will be compared with ordinary people.

Judging from the current wedding customs and economic development, there will be some differences in wedding expenses between getting married five years earlier and getting married five years later. Five years ago, it was ok for a man to marry a daughter-in-law without a car, whether in the countryside or in the city. After five years, most married women will ask their husbands to have a car, even if the car is less than 65,438+10,000, they feel embarrassed to take it out. In addition, it only costs 400,000-500,000 yuan to get married and buy a house of 100 square meter five years ago, and at least 200,000 yuan less after five years, and other bride price gifts will cost 20,000-50,000 yuan more. You see, just five years later, you will spend 300,000-400,000 more than those who get married early.

What are the advantages of getting married late?

1, married late, so playing with the baby is good for women's health.

The state encourages late childbearing, which is supported by certain physiological and medical theories. The earlier the child is born, the greater the possibility of harm to women. Many women do not pay attention to raising the fetus and postpartum recovery when giving birth to children in their twenties, which leads to the root cause of illness after giving birth. Women who marry late are all in their thirties, and their health at this time can be said to be the peak of their lives. At this time, having children can not only minimize the harm to women's health, but also give birth to healthier little ones.

You can put all your energy into your career before you get married.

As a professional novice, the most important thing is to master the first five years of work, which will lay the foundation for your future career. When other female employees divert their minds from their work because of their love life, you can devote yourself to your work without any fetters.

3. If you choose to marry late, you can meet a man with quality.

In fact, many women don't know that the man they once despised may become very popular in ten years. When young, many men will be classified as straight men or honest people who don't understand interests. They may really have this "shortcoming", but many women ignore the excellence of straight men and honest men in other aspects, so they lose their potential shares, and these men will break out one after another after leaving school for ten years, becoming what people call successful honest men, and they will only belong to those women who choose to marry late.

4. Late marriage will make the shelf life of feelings longer.

In fact, early marriage is likely to be a factor in the deterioration of couples' love. Early marriage means that when marriage is in the itch stage of ten years, they are actually young and may be entering middle age, while late marriage will drag this period later, and they may be in their fifties and have no energy to toss about. And love and marriage come so late, it is bound to cherish and cherish this relationship more.