The young man seems a little disheartened. Getting married should be a happy thing. If you really love that girl, the girl should understand your difficulties. There are many places where you can spend money on marriage. She should not have the idea of forcing her or wronged her. The extra money her family spends on bride price and wedding banquet is not the same as the burden she has to bear after marriage. You should discuss it with her and her family. It is not easy for two people to be together, so cherish each other. I don't quite understand your wedding customs. It's different from ours. Most of the bride price here is just meaning, generally not more than 50 thousand, generally 20 thousand-30 thousand This bride price is given to the younger generation by parents, and the bride's family wants to give the bride a generous dowry.