Is your husband from Suzhou? You know, it's more expensive to marry a daughter than a daughter-in-law in Suzhou. Not only her own jewelry, but even part of the man's jewelry, the woman should also arrange it. Your family's gift money from the man is almost 100% upside down. The atmosphere in rural areas of some developed towns and villages is even worse than that in urban areas, because Suzhou is a typical city where urban areas are not as good as towns and villages. Therefore, it is not unreasonable for him to think so with his mother. For example, my friend is a foreigner (man) and my daughter-in-law is from Suzhou. How do they arrange the bride price?

1, and the man gives the woman128,000 yuan. As a gift, the woman's parents wrote a check that day and returned it to the young couple in full.

2. The total house price of the man's house is 6.5438+0.2 million, and the woman's house is 50,000. As a house buyer, the man took out 500,000 yuan and the remaining loan. After two people * * * are with the bear. The decoration cost is 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, with the man paying, and the woman buying all the household appliances and some furniture as dowry.

3. The woman bought a car with a price of 6.5438+0.5 million.

4. The man buys all the jewelry of the woman, and the woman buys a 40-50g gold necklace (this seems necessary, too small to look good).

5. Wedding, photo-taking, traveling and catering are almost shared by men and women.

It can be said that a normal family is standard in Suzhou city. My friend is a foreigner. Of course, the conditions are ok. He needs to buy a house. But if you are a local, you will probably buy several houses, and there is no need to buy a house at all. The rest is to strive for perfection. Rural people are more competitive, and there are many people who give their daughters more money than gifts.

Of course, I suggest communication first. After all, affection is better than money.