1, and the man gives the woman128,000 yuan. As a gift, the woman's parents wrote a check that day and returned it to the young couple in full.
2. The total house price of the man's house is 6.5438+0.2 million, and the woman's house is 50,000. As a house buyer, the man took out 500,000 yuan and the remaining loan. After two people * * * are with the bear. The decoration cost is 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, with the man paying, and the woman buying all the household appliances and some furniture as dowry.
3. The woman bought a car with a price of 6.5438+0.5 million.
4. The man buys all the jewelry of the woman, and the woman buys a 40-50g gold necklace (this seems necessary, too small to look good).
5. Wedding, photo-taking, traveling and catering are almost shared by men and women.
It can be said that a normal family is standard in Suzhou city. My friend is a foreigner. Of course, the conditions are ok. He needs to buy a house. But if you are a local, you will probably buy several houses, and there is no need to buy a house at all. The rest is to strive for perfection. Rural people are more competitive, and there are many people who give their daughters more money than gifts.
Of course, I suggest communication first. After all, affection is better than money.