Do you like him (her) and she doesn't like you, or do you abandon you and marry someone else? Or do you have deep feelings for each other, but for various reasons, everyone acquiesces. Is he or she going to marry someone else? .
Faced with these situations, people's mentality is different. People's superficial reason is sometimes not sincere, and people's hearts are sometimes complicated and unpredictable. There are not many cases that can really bless him or her from the heart.
Here, I will try to analyze these various situations from my personal point of view!
First, if it is a simple love, he (she) is going to get married. It can only be said that fate is not enough, and it is impossible to say that you wish him or her from the heart.
Second, you like him (her), but she (he) doesn't like you. He is getting married, giving you regret, disappointment and jealousy. People are selfish, and naturally they will not bless him from the heart.
Third, we like to make an appointment with each other, and then turn our backs on each other, and people are getting married. This will not only not bless him (her) from the heart, but also bury a long-term hatred in his heart.
There is only one situation that will bless him (her) from the heart: two people like each other and have deep feelings, but they can't get married for various reasons and both feel indebted to each other. When he or she is going to get married, they will bless him or her from the heart.
Except in this case, other people's congratulations on your marriage are rational and superficial, so don't expect people who like you to sincerely bless you. The only people who really bless you are your parents and relatives.
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I will.
I used to think that if I liked someone, I had to be together. It's sad and painful to see someone else. At that time, I felt that it was like a person's inner feelings, and I didn't feel anything abnormal.
Later, when I find that I really like someone, I really hope that he can live well. I don't want him to be unhappy even if I'm not the last person he chooses.
If one day, the person I like chooses someone else, I will bless him from the heart, and of course I will bless myself and find the right person as soon as possible.
Emotional things, the more entangled, the more sad they will be, so the best way is to convince yourself to let go, whether he chooses to be with you or not, but because you like him, you don't want him to be sad.
Being apart is true love. Sometimes, if you know that you can't give each other happiness, let her find her own happiness, which is actually a way to love someone.
Although it is a pity that I can't be with the person I like, I still think it is worthwhile to see him happy, so I will bless him.
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I won't. I'm not a god or a Buddha.
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I think so, but I don't know if it's from the heart.
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Of course I wish him the best from my heart! After all, we are impossible, which shows that I have put it down from the bottom of my heart, so just be friends and everyone can start their new lives. Take me for example!
I was with my first boyfriend for four years, and finally he went out to work, so we broke up because he met another girl who could accompany him. I was very painful when I learned that, and finally I accepted the breakup. It took me 1 year to get out. Later, he said he was getting married, and I said I wish him well. I was sincere at that time. I thought I had let it go after so long. Later, we became friends. Now we are still friends, and occasionally he will ask me how I am doing. I will not complain about life in front of him. I said nothing, because he is no longer the object of complaint.
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We have all gone through years that we like each other, and we all have our own lives. We also have lovers and even children around us. In the past, lovers respected each other like guests. There is a saying that it is better to miss each other than to meet, and it is better to miss them than not to see them. Once the beautiful things are in my heart, just say hello once in a while. The most beautiful thing is always in my heart. When you dig them out, they will change color. I wish all the people who are kind to me.
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Of course, bless him! To love someone is not necessarily to stay with him for a lifetime and grow old together. The real purpose is to hope that he can get happiness! This is true love, selfless love! Now that he is married, you have to understand that it is impossible for the person you love to be with yourself. The only thing you can do now is to wish him happiness forever.
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I'm just an ordinary person! I'm not a god, not a Buddha! Not a man of noble soul! I tm said that she is a lifetime, and she wishes me from the heart before she can get married, but also wishes me from the heart? I can't even say it on the surface! ! ! Is the heart so easily compromised? Is there a feeling that tm gives up so easily?