? Let's talk about blind date first. Generally, the man goes to the woman's house for blind date, and decides whether he has the intention to communicate according to the first impression. If the man is satisfied with the woman, he can call her directly. On the other hand, if the woman is satisfied, she will not make a phone call directly, but will make a decision by testing the man's meaning through the matchmaker. When both sides are satisfied, the woman's parents will go to the man's house to see the house accompanied by the matchmaker in two days. This is equivalent to both sides have seen each other's houses, and the economic situation can also be seen.
? Next is the engagement. On this day, the man will come to pay the dowry and send jewelry. The woman's family should invite guests, generally only relatives. Engagement is very important in southern Fujian, and it is difficult to return the engagement money after engagement.
? And then the wedding day. Rich people accompany millions, plus Mercedes-Benz BMW. This is just cash, and the actual dowry is far more than that. Because all the furniture (except beds) and electrical appliances are bought by the woman's family, and there are tens of thousands. What will people do if they have no money? People who have no money should not only buy these home appliances, but also return the employment money intact at the worst. Anyway, it is certain that marrying a daughter costs money. There is also an exaggeration to say that a woman's dowry, usually a bank passbook, should be printed and enlarged, framed and put in a new house for people to see.
So people who go to the wedding reception look at the bride at first sight and the passbook at second sight. ?
The dowry is still unfinished, and there are many other necessities. What I know is seven buckets (washbasin, bucket, bedpan and future children's bathtub, etc. ), lead, tea stalks, bamboo leaves (these are chopped and scattered on the bride when she gets on the wedding car). Lead is homophonic with "fate" in southern Fujian, and the clothes worn by the bride on the wedding day should be sewn with round lead pieces from the inside out), two boxes (the bride should prepare at least 7 sets of clothes, change them every day within 7 days of marriage, and put money at the bottom of the box), as well as scattered things such as cosmetics and perfume.
Busy two or three days before marriage. Because I want to prepare a tray.
Next, the bride is going out. Newlyweds are expensive, so you can't just meet people. So the bride came out with her face covered.
Then touch the onion, garlic and radish.
Then the brother covered his head with black gauze. Brother in front, brother in the back.
Pass me the brazier. ?
When you go out, you must take a red umbrella.
Sprinkle lead, tea stalks and bamboo leaves on the bride.