Shandong marriage custom
Choosing a date: Many people know that a wedding date must be chosen, but the wedding date is usually set by the man's family, and the reception date is set by the parents. On the reception day, the groom will stay at the bride's house all day, and will also receive relatives and friends of the bride's house.
Novices must also pour wine for customers and accept gifts from female relatives and friends. After that, the groom needs to go back to his home on the wedding day and see the bride again.
Take the bride: the groom's take the bride room is also a good room calculated by some people. Usually 8 and 9. And the groom's official must be an odd number of people who come to pick up the bride. It is best to control the total number of people visiting the church to more than a dozen, among whom there must be a pair of men and women.
Marriage: According to the marriage custom in Shandong Province, if the bride changes her mind and calls her father and mother male, she must charge a change fee. Generally, the amount of change fee is relatively large. After entering the new house, the bride needs to eat peanuts, which means a hundred years of harmony.
Small boxes and wooden cabinets in new houses must be piled with coins, which means wealth. After that, the novices will take photos together, and then go to the hotel restaurant to press _ for the wedding.
Big red envelope: I don't need to pay attention to receiving gifts after marriage, but giving red envelopes is also metaphorical. If you are a pen pal, you will usually send a big red envelope with unique practical significance, such as 666,888,1314,5200.
Back to the door: This is actually the same everywhere in China. After the bride gets married, she must go back to her family, but she can't be seen off by the groom. She must be picked up by the bride's brother or sister. The bride can stay at her house for a few days. Later, the bride's brother and younger brother are sending the bride back.
With the change and development trend of the times, the wedding customs in Shandong now require more and more marriage. Moreover, newcomers generally contract their wedding banquets to better wedding companies. But whether it's a wedding reception or a wedding company, as long as the couple likes it, it's ok.