Because when they got married, their parents also provided help and blessings. But I think it depends on how much money and what money. You can spend a little more reasonably, such as the money for the banquet, and then the money will go to your parents. Give your wife a big gold ring and necklace, and let all the lucky people make beds and silk quilts. For a family whose parents are civil servants in ordinary third-tier cities. No problem, but if you want them to pay hundreds of thousands of diamond rings and hundreds of thousands of cars down payment, then go out and find local tyrants and parents.