Now this society is so realistic. If you have no house or car, no girl will consider you if you get married. Because when you are in love, you will think that you will earn it back by your own hands in the future. But when it comes to getting engaged and getting married, it is no longer a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. At this time, what you should consider is not the personal feelings between the two of us, but the face problem between the two families, because if the daughter is not married well, there may be people gossiping in the village, so it is really important for the woman to have a house.
I think many people will be at odds with their partners or unable to get married because of house problems. In fact, this problem reflects a special reality in today's society. Because if you don't have a house and get married, the pressure of life in the future will be particularly great. You should not only take care of your life, but also make money to buy a house. If these things are settled, it may take two people five or six years to pay the down payment on the house. But if you buy all these before marriage, it will save you five or six years of struggle. Therefore, the woman's family will pay special attention to the problem of the house, and no one wants her girl to marry.
But if I were you, I would give full consideration to my personal reasons. If this man really can't afford a house in the future, then this house must be available before marriage. If not, I will fight for it even if there are contradictions, so it is also a guarantee for my future life. But if this boy is really capable, he can guarantee you a better life after marriage, but there are some difficult problems that we need to solve together for the time being. At this time, I think I should stand in his perspective, understand him and tolerate him, instead of putting too much pressure on him.
Of course, I don't think marriage is about two people after all. Insist on the problem of two families. If your parents don't let you marry because the man's family condition is not good, it depends on your personal choice. If you choose to listen to your parents and stay away from them, you can also find someone who has a house and a car. But think about your life is definitely unhappy, because you haven't married the person you want to marry. Another way is that you just want to marry your parents by quarreling with them. When you get married, you have to solve the problem of the house yourself. After marriage, you will work harder to earn your own house money.
I think these are all things you should consider now, so you should think it over before deciding whether to go forward with him. If you really want to move forward together, don't consider other factors, because nothing can stop two people from being together. These are separate things. What really matters is whether you want him or not. If you cherish it, put aside the problem of the house and make plans after you get married. If you can't accept it, then break up.
I think people nowadays will consider these before getting married, especially girls. But if you don't have a house or a car, it's generally not considered, because there are more men than women in this society, and many people can't find a partner, let alone the reason to pick a girl. Girls are picking boys. So I think if a boy has a wife, he should cherish it. Hurry to make money to buy a house and marry a wife, so that girls will not have any pressure at home.
Of course, I think we can wait until boys really make money to buy a house before getting married. After all, he just got engaged, and if he gets better and better and more capable in the future, the house will definitely not be a problem. Don't be short-sighted and just want such things and give up someone you like very much.
It's up to you. After all, it's your choice whether you want to suffer hardships in the future. If you are willing to suffer for who you are, then nothing else is a problem. The house is not a problem, and the car is not a problem. There will be. If you can't stand the pain, then break up.