The wedding was three years later than he expected. In 20 19, lyna and Lena, who was young 12, got a marriage certificate. Three months later, Lena returned to Russia due to illness. Since then, due to the epidemic and the conflict between Russia and Ukraine, we were separated from Wan Li and could not meet. Until June 25th, 2022, 165438+ Yuan arrived in Moscow, and they hugged each other for a long time, sobbing.
65438+ 10/2, lyna told reporters in xiaoxiang morning herald that he planned to spend the Russian new year with his wife and fly back to China in February. "I want to accompany Lena to visit the famous mountains and rivers in China and appreciate the splendid Chinese civilization. We also plan to have a lovely baby. "
Lyna and his wife Lena.
Discuss the history of China and get to know each other online.
1980, lyna was born in a rural family in Yueyang, Hunan. The rough experience of childhood made him cherish his family more.
Lyna is the third child in the family, and there is a brother and a sister in the family. My brother and sister died for some reason, and my mother couldn't afford to get sick under repeated blows. At that time, Yuan was five years old.
My physically disabled father weaves all kinds of bamboo baskets for him to learn. Xiaoliangyuan learned to take care of his family when he was studying. At the age of 9, my mother died, and at the age of 2 1, my father died of lung cancer. At this time, lyna, who studied fashion design and production in a textile university in Changsha for two years, began to face life alone.
Because he studied fashion design systematically, lyna got many opportunities at work. He compiled his experiences into a book and published it. He was also hired by a university in Chongqing to give lectures with his excellent personal ability. 20 14 also founded its own fashion training school. Lyna's career is thriving.
Lyna was lonely until she met Lena.
Speaking of Lena, lyna thanked his past two girlfriends without hesitation. A girlfriend died of illness at the beginning of her career. This sad experience taught him to cherish. The other girlfriend is a Russian student, and they are separated because of each other's family. At that time, after a trip to Russia, lyna became interested in this country. He met his girlfriend through the internet and learned some Russian with her help and encouragement.
Time came to the second half of 20 18. A Russian post on the Internet aroused lyna's interest. The other party said they wanted to know the history of China. The poster is Lena.
Lena is a doctoral student at Tomsk University in Russia, majoring in foreign cultural studies and cultural relics research. Lyna told Lena many historical stories about China in Russian he had learned before.
There are more and more exchanges between them. Lyna said that every time they communicate, they can talk about Bashan and Shushui from the ice and snow Gobi, and there are always endless topics from Russian dolls to shadow play in northern Shaanxi. Every time I say goodbye, I always feel unfinished.
chat history
In 20 19, Lena worked in a local museum after graduation. After months of getting along, Lena made a bold decision. She has never left Russia and never flown. Despite her parents' objections, she decided to embark on a journey to China.
Meet for the second time and get a marriage certificate.
"I still don't know how she persuaded her parents to come to China and come to me."
Lyna still remembers the tall and thin figure, the simple and brave girl in Beijing Airport on June 29th, 2065438.
Unlike lyna's rough experience, Lena lives in a happy family.
Lena's childhood photos
Lena was born in a rural family in Novosibirsk, Russia on 1992. My father is in management at the university, and my mother graduated with a master's degree. She was a ski instructor when she was young, and now she works in the sports bureau. I also have a married sister. Lena is deeply loved by her parents and has achieved excellent academic results since she was a child. She also participated in local beauty contests and achieved good results.
Worried about missing Lena's pick-up, lyna arrived in Beijing 18 hours in advance, holding a sign with Lena's name in his hand and waiting at the airport exit.
Pick-up sign
Lyna told the xiaoxiang morning herald reporter that the two lovers met online did not have the strangeness when they first met, so they naturally held hands and hugged each other. After a short rest for two hours, he took Lena on the bullet train and went to Qinhuangdao seaside for three days. "Our first meal together was to eat jiaozi in a restaurant without a spoon. She can't use chopsticks, so I picked them up and fed them to her one by one. "
Lyna and his wife Lena.
After that, he took Lena to visit many cities in China. A month later, Lena had to return to Russia because her tourist visa expired. She went back by plane with tears in her eyes.
This time together, Lena's determination to marry lyna is more determined. Two months later, she gave up her job in the museum, got a bachelor's certificate, and came to China again before the National Day of China on 20 19 with full love and longing. This time, she came to get married.
Get a marriage certificate
"We also overcame many difficulties when we got the license. We came to Changsha to register and found that it was not enough to rely on the single certificate. We also need to go to the embassy to prove it. In order to get the certificate before work at the Marriage Registration Office of Hunan Provincial Civil Affairs Department the next day, we bought a train to Guangzhou at 2 am the next day and immediately took the high-speed train back to Changsha after being certified by the embassy. " Lyna remembers that when they arrived, there were only 20 minutes left from work. In this way, foreign couples who are 12 years apart formally receive marriage certificates and become legal couples.
Separated for three years due to the epidemic
Because Lena's visa was only extended for one month, she returned to Russia with tears in her eyes again. Lyna came to Russia before New Year's Day in 2020, and formally met his parents-in-law. After New Year's Day, they returned to China together. Just as they were looking forward to a new life, Lena suddenly fell ill.
"Lena took a hormone medicine when she was studying, which can improve her memory and stabilize her mood, but long-term use has produced side effects. This medicine is very common among Russian students. " Lyna told reporters that Lena decided to go back to Russia for medical treatment first, considering that Russia has a mature response plan for such diseases, and lyna decided to accompany her to settle in Russia after handling domestic affairs.
This is three years.
Lyna said that after the outbreak, after Lena left, the flight to Novosibirsk was completely suspended. After the domestic situation improved, foreign countries began to get out of control again.
When the two places were separated, the wife's memory declined because of treatment. Worried, lyna began to write a book for his wife, in which he wrote the story of their acquaintance and love. In addition, in order to get the approval of Russian father-in-law, lyna also wrote a book specially for his father-in-law, introducing the rapid development of China in recent years and helping him understand China.
During this period, lyna made a lot of efforts to go to Russia. I booked a plane ticket, but the plane was cancelled for various reasons, and my passport was about to expire, so I had to apply for a new passport.
After many twists and turns, lyna bought a plane ticket to Russia and successfully applied for a visa. "I bought gifts for Lena's family two months in advance, including computers and mobile phones, and sold the domestic clothing training school. She can give up her job for me, and I can give up for her. I can earn more money, but I cannot let her go. " Lyna said that it was not until the plane successfully stopped in Moscow that his heart finally landed. At the airport, he finally met his wife who had been away for three years. She is holding a bunch of flowers, still as beautiful as when she first saw them.
"My arrival surprised my father-in-law. He thought we had separated long ago, but in fact we have been in contact for three years. " Lyna said that when he first came to Russia, although his father-in-law's attitude was very polite, he could also feel that the other side wanted him to leave quickly and disagreed with their marriage. When he came to Russia this time, he obviously felt the change of his father-in-law's attitude. "He will take me to the supermarket now, and he will also chat with me and treat me as a son."
After coming to Russia, lyna spent the Russian New Year with Lena's family and met her relatives and friends. "I'm not used to eating. I can't eat bread every day. I brought a lot of cooked food, rice and a small rice cooker from China, and occasionally I went to the kitchen to cook some porridge myself. "
I plan to go back to China for a wedding.
"Now Russia, the economic environment is not good. Because of the impact of the Russian-Ukrainian conflict, the price level is very unstable. " Lyna said that the devaluation of the local ruble has reduced the income of the local people, but the price has risen and the life pressure is great. In the long run, the employment pressure is severe and it is difficult to find a job. "Enterprises closed down and many people lost their jobs. And because of conscription, many men need to join the army, leading to the closure of many industries. According to Lena, there may be a second round of conscription. In the past, the age of conscription was over 40 years old, and it will be lower next time. "
Lyna revealed that considering that this situation may last for a long time, he and Lina bought Russian air tickets to China and planned to return to China on February 17, 2023.
"I have no income in Russia now, and I can't find a job for the time being, so I will bring some goods online." Lyna revealed that in recent years, in order to record his previous story with Lena, he shot many videos and posted them on the Internet, which unexpectedly attracted many fans. He plans to hold a wedding with his wife in Chongqing in the first half of 2023. "Many fans witnessed our love all the way, and they said they also wanted to come to our wedding."
For the arrangement in 2023, lyna intends to temporarily stop working. Over the years, lyna has saved some savings. He wants to accompany his wife around China and get to know her. "Lena suffered from depression due to illness. She can't leave me, and I don't trust her alone. Besides, Lena is not an international student. She is not familiar with China. I need to familiarize her with life here. "
"I think we will definitely have a child of our own in 2023." When it comes to the future, lyna is full of expectations.
Xiaoxiang morning herald reporter Zhou Lingru