Returning home is an essential etiquette for newlyweds, and it is necessary for both sides to return to the woman's home to pay homage to their parents. There are many things to pay attention to when going back to the door, not only the time of going back to the door, the dress, the bride's dress, but also some things and gifts to prepare. Most rural areas have the custom of Huimen, so it is very necessary to understand the stress of Huimen.

Return time: the time of visiting relatives varies according to local customs. It's usually the third day after marriage. Huimen is the common return of husband and wife, so it has the auspicious meaning of pairing.

Homecoming dresses: Before returning home, the bride and groom need to carefully select their homecoming dresses. Colors should be festive, and clothes should be new, representing a new beginning. Many places will choose to use big red, but it doesn't have to be big red. Avoid choosing black, white, gray and blue that look unhappy, and give priority to bright colors. The bride can choose dresses with dignified appearance, such as dresses and cheongsam. In winter, she can choose a red woolen coat, and the groom can wear a suit.

Things to prepare for returning home: the older generation pays more attention to the custom of returning home, and the newcomers should pay more attention to the gifts of returning home. The new son-in-law will give her father-in-law a round-trip gift and round-trip money, bring cigarettes, tea, wine and other gifts according to local customs, as well as some fruits, chickens and ducks. But pay attention to yes-men, and double the number of gifts for good luck. The groom should pay attention to the choice of gifts and try to leave a good impression on the woman's family.

In addition, when returning to the door, the woman usually walks in front, and when returning to the door, the man walks in front. Generally, you don't spend the night at the woman's house after you go home, so you need to return the same day, because there used to be a custom of staying indoors for one month after the wedding, but now it's not so particular. Moreover, when the couple returns, the woman's family needs to hold a banquet. At the banquet, the bride should take the groom to thank relatives and friends for their blessings on their marriage. After dinner, the couple don't have to rush home, they can chat with relatives at home. Therefore, Huimen still has a lot to pay attention to. Most of these stresses are passed down from local customs, or they should be passed down.