I'm in a hurry, too, but if it helps, there won't be so many "leftover men and women" and so many "single dog". Besides, I need someone who understands my soul, not someone who lives with me. You can't find such a person at once, can you?

In our parents' cognition, it seems that it is a bit "rebellious" not to get married after the age of 25. At this age, they have no sense of family responsibility, and they really failed their parenting. More importantly, neighbors always say that the child is not married in his thirties. ...

We are also anxious and want to find a suitable marriage partner.

But in this world, it is easy for you to find your other half like an idol drama, but not if you are in a hurry. Silly day meets domineering male president, short and ugly meets white, which is the plot of TV series. In reality, even if we are in a hurry, we will not lower our standards, let alone like the person who comes to us at any time.

Sometimes I wonder why other people's love seems so simple and suddenly enters the marriage hall from love, while my own love is so difficult.

People who like it have liked it for so many years, but finally they have to go their separate ways. The defendant confessed, but the person who confessed was not the one he liked to wait for.

Getting married is easy. Just accept the confession of others. However, this kind of marriage is really good for each other, for their own good?

Probably, as we all know, it's not marriage, it's compromise, and it's torture to each other.

So although I am anxious, I am psychologically prepared: I look forward to love and marriage, but at the same time I am psychologically prepared to grow old alone.

In Terry Lin's "single love song", it means "there are happy people everywhere in the world". Why can't you count me in "... why do single people want me, and why do people who have no marriage partners want me?

I also want to get married ... but I can't find anyone who can talk to me, accompany me and understand me. It is better not to get married like that, be free and happy alone, or be lonely alone.

There are peers around me who are unmarried, and they are already thinking about finding someone to "flash marriage". I don't know how to evaluate such behavior. Perhaps, everyone has the right to choose, and this is their own life, and others have no right to interfere.

However, under the expectation of the society, I hope that I will not change my mind because of the influence of "social hidden rules" such as "I must get married when I am old" and regret it in the future.