I am especially grateful to her. I feel that without her, I might be an unemployed person now, or someone who had an accident because of depression, and so on.
I am very happy with her every day, and she is very considerate. As a girl, she must agree. As a result, buying vegetables, washing vegetables, cooking, washing pots and bowls, cleaning the house, and other small things at home must be my unshirkable responsibility to satisfy her desire to go shopping and eat big meals occasionally.
Slowly, she also wants to live with me, go to work together, eat together, go to the vegetable market to buy things together, eat a barbecue with only 13 yuan and a 2.5 yuan pie together, eat a cold noodle together, drink a cold drink together, and unconsciously live a frugal life.
She spends less and less, but my pressure is increasing. The more she does this, the less I want to live up to it. I often hear her talk to her best friend about getting married. When it comes to her, she always speaks very fast, but I can hear the loss in her words and dare not tell her loudly: we are going to get married at the end of the year.
My girlfriend was born in 1993 and I was born in 1992. She graduated from graduate school last year. Her parents want her to get married as soon as possible, but I am not qualified to get married now. I don't have thirty thousand dollars in my hand. What should I do? "
My suggestion: It's good to see that you are a responsible man and want to give your beloved woman a glamorous wedding and make her happy all her life.
Now you want to take on the financial problems alone and worry about it. We might as well think about it from another angle. Is marriage a marriage of one person or two people? The answer is definitely the marriage of two people, but when encountering difficulties and setbacks, should we struggle alone or discuss it together? So you should discuss with your girlfriend how to organize the wedding, so as to be economical and meaningful.
It is understandable that you are not rich for the time being, but your spiritual wealth is higher than many people! According to your own financial resources, try to hold a meaningful wedding, let your bride feel your love and care, let your parents feel the importance of your marriage, and cherish your wife.
Your girlfriend wants to marry you. She should know your financial situation. She won't ask too much. This kind of girl who is willing to live a hard life with the man she loves deserves to cherish her life. You can make up for what you lack today. Besides, nothing is more precious to a girl's parents than a man who cherishes his daughter. Love your lover well in the future, and everything will be fine.