Let me talk about my wedding first. I am very grateful to my wife now, because she married me when I was poorest. 24 years old, nothing, no house, no car, no real job. It was really hard, but fate brought us together. She thought I was a good man, so she decided to marry a poor boy like me regardless of her family's persuasion.
I remember very clearly that I didn't even have money to buy him gold when I got married. I borrowed thousands of dollars from my classmates to buy a gold necklace. Even earrings are not gold, but silver. You can imagine how difficult it was, and the wedding was quite simple. Even the wedding car has a red Li Xia, and the wedding company is the cheapest, but what's the result? When the process is not perfect, we don't look at the process, we look at the result.
Now my wife and I have been married for 10 years, and my children will soon graduate from primary school. Our life can be described by the word perfection. Although it is either rich or expensive, the most basic food and clothing has been solved. One day, I asked my wife if she had any regrets after marrying me. My wife said she didn't regret it. She said she was not wrong. When I am with you, I don't want to be rich and expensive, I just want stability and happiness.
It can be seen that we choose a person to live the rest of our lives, to live happily together and form a family. This is the essence of marriage, not formalism, and everything should pay attention to a sense of ceremony.
I don't think life can go to the end. An imperfect wedding can't determine your future marriage.