Look, this happy pair of girls is Pingping, twenty-five, quite beautiful, 1.7 meters tall; The boy's name is Wei Yao, 32 years old, and his height is 1.6 meters. Obviously, the girl's plain mother objected because she could not accept the boy's height, and she also bluntly said: this is a "third-degree disability." The mother of the boy Wei Yao objected, because the girl was too young, and the girl's mother strongly opposed it. "Speaking of which, my daughter's voice choked me. Pingping's mother still ignores her daughter's idea: "I just don't agree ... I can't accept his height ..." It is said that the love goal set by girls is nothing more than these conditions: male, urban white-collar worker, at least have a fixed job; Height 1.7 to 1.8 meters, plus having a house and a car is preferred. But based on these conditions, Wei Yao has none: now he has started his own business and opened a wedding company; He is only 1.6 meters tall, and has no house or car. Therefore, Pingping's mother firmly opposed her daughter who graduated from college to associate with him on the grounds that she was too short, had no fixed job and no house. Speaking of height, when I am looking for an object, the height of a boy is also one of the first and most important conditions. " 1.72m and don't talk. "But when you really get married, height is not important at all, it is just an external condition, that's all. On the contrary, what matters is personality, responsibility to the family and so on. One of my middle school classmates, in order to find a boyfriend who is 1.8 meters tall, asked people to introduce him everywhere and finally found him. But after marriage, he found that this man was hollow, lazy, self-motivated and more responsible for his family. This marriage, which others think is a match made in heaven, has finally come to an end. Finally, my classmate had to divorce him. For a long time, in people's eyes, it is natural for boys to be taller than girls, which makes them feel "safe". In fact, this is just a secular prejudice. Whether a man is good or bad can not be judged by his height, but by whether he has a sense of responsibility for his family and whether he dares to bear it. By my side, there are actually many "short men and tall women" couples, and their family life is very happy. It is not difficult to see from them that marrying a short man is actually very happy. According to my observation, the marriage of "short men and high women" has several advantages: short men have ideals and can fight for them. Generally speaking, short men are based on reality, usually have lofty ideals, and they can work hard to realize them, which is commendable. Short people have good endurance. In real life, both our love and marriage need to be managed. Without good endurance, of course not. Short men are very tolerant. Protect women from high heels. Although wearing high-heeled shoes can make women's figure look more graceful, the pain caused by high-heeled shoes to women's feet can not be underestimated, and they may even grind thick cocoons or suffer trauma. After a tall woman marries a short man, in order to walk as harmoniously as possible, as a wife, she naturally doesn't want to wear high heels, thus avoiding the torture of wearing high heels to change the genes of her offspring. As the saying goes, men are short and women are short. The combination of "short men and tall women" can effectively achieve the balance of height and completely improve the height defects of offspring, because the height of sons is often inherited from mothers and the height of daughters is often inherited from fathers. In reality, the height requirements for women are not particularly strict. Short people live long. From a medical point of view, short people do not put too much pressure on the heart and other organs because of their light weight and small body load, which can effectively ensure physical and mental health and prolong life. In addition, since ancient times, there has been a saying that women live longer than men, which just hit the nail on the head. The old couple can work together for a hundred years. Short men are more satisfied. From a secular point of view, it is difficult for short boys to find tall girls as girlfriends, so once they have them, they want nothing more and cherish them more. Short men will feel more secure. Among the short men I meet, they are usually good-natured, gentle, hardworking and responsible for their families. Writing here, I sincerely wish lovers can get the blessing of their parents and finally get married.