Real marriage is not as romantic as falling in love. You need to think about eating, sleeping, working, children, the elderly and so on every day, and the burden on your shoulders is also very heavy. There is no reason why two people should or should not live together. But to be considerate, sympathetic and do more things for each other to make him happy. Girls in love always wonder why boys can't understand themselves, do more things for themselves, spend more money and buy more gifts for themselves. Boys in love are also human beings, and some may be as old as girls and have limited abilities. For the person he likes, he will try his best to give her something good. Although I can't satisfy everything, I'm basically doing my best. Boys also need more care and consideration. If a girl really loves this boy, she can give him more care.
After marriage, two people should start a real life. To some extent, it is to form a group. The members of this group are parents and two children, who are the crystallization of love. Since there are so many people to take care of after marriage, you shouldn't put all the burdens on one person. Two people can earn money together, do housework together, and accompany their children and parents together. After many people get married, the burden of family basically falls on their wives, who have to work besides doing housework, cooking and washing clothes, taking care of children, sympathizing with the elderly on both sides, and so on. The husband only needs to face the work like a young master, and when he gets home, he waits for his wife to cook for her. This kind of marriage is difficult to maintain. If one day his wife is disappointed and saves too much, she will be completely desperate and will try to get a divorce.
If you want to spend your life with your beloved after marriage, you should understand him, make allowance for him and give him enough freedom. Women are generally more sensitive. The more you care about her, the younger she is, and the more she can understand your difficulties. Man, if you really care about your woman, go home from work to cook with her, or come back to buy her favorite food. She will naturally take care of your home and live happily with you. Women should also be rational and not importune. Home is not a reasonable place, but a place full of love. Make surprises for each other at the right time, give each other a step at the right time, and don't die for face and pain. ?