It may be unfair to let the other half wait until the stage of marriage to recall the sweetness before.
Mr. Xu, who was newly married, met the most unforgettable thing in his life.
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The music played and the ceremony reached its climax.
The voice of the MC is magnetic, which makes the relatives and friends present fall into a moving mood.
Although everyone has heard a lot about these words, some people disagree, but the blessing to the bride and groom is true.
A small link was designed during the rehearsal. The bride stood in the distance, shouting the name of the groom on the stage, just like when she first met him.
The romantic link will set off the climax of the whole wedding.
Mr Xu is very nervous. He knew that his new wife was more nervous than himself.
However, this is your own wedding, so there is no need to care about other people's eyes.
Mr. Xu turned his back to the audience, and the music started. The bride came in, took the microphone handed over by the bridesmaid, shook her hand, and said, Zhang Feng, you. ...
The voice came to an abrupt end, the bride was blinded, Mr. Xu was shocked, and the scene was quiet.
Most relatives and friends present don't know who this Zhang Feng is, but Mr. Xu does.
Zhang Feng, the bride's ex-boyfriend for three years.
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Mr. Xu met his wife, Ms. Sun, at a friend's party. At that time, she was Zhang Feng's girlfriend.
She caught Mr. Xu's attention as soon as she appeared.
Ms. Sun's generous speech and beautiful appearance were the focus of the party.
At that time, Ms. Sun's boyfriend Zhang Feng was the boss of a startup company. Her career is booming and she earns a lot of money.
Between words, Ms. Sun is very proud of having such a boyfriend, and a few words can't be separated from her boyfriend's topic.
Everyone chatted with her in a perfunctory way, and learned their love history from her, although everyone was not very interested.
Mr. Xu, who has been paying attention to this lady, of course listened to everything she said.
It turns out that Ms. Sun and I have known each other since school. After graduation, they started from scratch, and Zhang Feng turned a shabby little house into a large company.
At that time, the most difficult time, two people once shared a bag of instant noodles for a meal.
Mr. Xu was very moved when he heard this, and at the same time he broke his thoughts about Ms. Sun.
He knows that a bad wife can't stay in court, and a husband and wife in trouble have the deepest feelings.
Even if you have any thoughts about Ms. Sun, don't say there is no hope, and you can't get involved in other people's feelings.
The party soon ended, and Mr. Xu forgot her like a passer-by.
Life is still so calm, like a calm stream, and the occasional waves are submerged in memories.
Until one time, Mr. Xu met Ms. Sun in the street.
At that time, her eyes were dull, her clothes were ordinary, and her hair style was not well done.
It's quite different from the impression at the party.
An electric car sped by and was about to meet Ms. Sun in the rear.
Mr. Xu had no time to think too much and pulled Ms. Sun over in one step.
Ms. Sun looked back at him blankly, said thank you gently, and turned away as if she didn't know him at all.
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Mr. Xu didn't catch up, so he immediately asked his friend about Zhang Feng's recent situation.
It turns out that Zhang Feng's company is facing bankruptcy because of poor management. Zhang Feng, who was disheartened, broke up with Ms. Sun.
A friend said that I didn't expect the troubled couple to fly separately in the face of disaster.
What Mr. Xu thinks is that maybe Zhang Feng doesn't want to implicate his girlfriend.
No wonder Ms. Sun's slouches turned out to be more sad than dead.
Mr. Xu found someone to find out Ms. Sun's contact information, and finally added friends and started his own emotional offensive.
At first, Ms. Sun just talked with him perfunctorily out of affection. But soon, Mr. Xu's comfort in work and life seems to make Ms. Sun slowly find warmth.
However, Ms. Sun did not forget her ex-boyfriend and tried to get back together with him several times to help him make a comeback, but she refused mercilessly.
In a rage, Ms. Sun actively confirmed her relationship with Mr. Xu. This surprised Mr. Xu, but he didn't know what Ms. Sun was thinking.
In this way, I quickly entered the marriage hall.
When Ms. Sun called her ex-boyfriend by mistake at the wedding, Mr. Xu knew that the dream woke up a little late.
The emcee rushed to the rescue and brought a joke, but Mr. Xu was not in the mood. Although the wedding is still going on and the two are smiling, no one knows what they are thinking.
After the wedding, Mr. Xu sent away his friend who was going to make trouble in the bridal chamber, facing his wife who was sitting on the big red bed with mixed feelings.
His wife lowered her head and her eyes were red. She seems to have no intention of explaining. Mr. Xu thinks it's okay not to explain. At this point, any explanation is pale and powerless.
He said, I know, you still can't forget him. I forced myself not to think before, but today I know that this dream should wake up. I won't stop you if you want to leave.
My wife burst into tears. She hugged Mr. Xu and kept saying sorry. She said she was willing to marry him, but she still didn't forget that man in her heart. She just wants to hide in her heart and live a good life. Today, after a slip of the tongue, she knows how to explain it.
Screaming at the top of my lungs hit Mr. Xu's heart and left a trail.
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When you are with someone, you must hope her body and mind are on you.
Perhaps Mr. Xu's experience can only be described as bitterness.
This is unfair to him, because he really wants to be with his wife, not half-hearted.
But on the other hand, he is also very lucky to be able to marry his sweetheart and find out the crux of the problem in advance.
Although marriage and love are not synchronized, time can change everything, just depending on how two people choose.
Or separate and find their own homes, so as not to enlarge the problem in the future; Still continue to be together, let time wash away the traces of the past, and let feelings sprout in time.
This requires courage, because no one knows the end of the unknown future; This also needs hard work, because some people will find that this person in front of them is the real other half of this life after going through some experiences.
Marriage and affection, like two athletes on the runway, may not necessarily lead. But when it comes to marriage and feelings, two people need to be extremely cautious.
In the TV series "Marriage before Love", Wei Fan has a line:
You'd better keep your distance before you decide which side to take.
People's feelings, there is no two places at once, before deciding to get married, look at yourself first and see what you think in your heart.
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Looking at his excited wife and listening to her apology, Mr. Xu pushed her away and closed the door without looking back.
He left a sentence: We all need to be quiet and think about where our hearts should be.
Emotion is probably the most taboo word "worry". On a whim, they will grow old together. After all, there is still some gap between the two.
With a feeling, take your time to see if the other person is the one worth waiting for, and see if his (her) heart is on himself; If you want to leave, take your time and see if your heart will leave with you and whether it is fair to the party you are going to.
I still remember Mu Xin's poem: Once upon a time, the sun changed slowly, and the mail was slow, so I could only love one person in my life.
Perhaps, feelings should return to the old rhythm, love a person wholeheartedly, and keep a heart for life.
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