1, bride price (given to the woman at the time of engagement)
Some boys and their parents are very resistant to the bride price. They think that the bride price is to sell their daughters. In fact, as a traditional custom, the bride price is to express gratitude to the woman's parents and also a guarantee for her. As a result of some high-priced bride price events, people have different views on the bride price, but as long as the number of bride price is not too high, both sides can do what they can according to local customs and economic conditions, ranging from tens of thousands to tens of thousands, and the woman has to respond to a certain dowry.
A man who is really worth marrying generally doesn't blame his poverty on the other person's material things, but thinks, "Other girls have it, so should my wife." In fact, no matter how many betrothal gifts there are, the key lies in whether the boys themselves are reliable.
2. Sanjin/Hardware
The three golds are "gold necklaces, earrings and rings" or "gold bracelets, earrings and necklaces". The hardware is "gold necklace, gold ring, gold earring, gold bracelet and gold anklet". Generally, the mother-in-law prepares to give it to her wife before marriage to show her attention to her daughter-in-law. At present, it is usually the mother-in-law who takes her daughter-in-law to the store to choose, or the mother-in-law pays, and the man takes his fiancee to the store to choose styles.
3. Wedding room
Nowadays, it is necessary for a man to get married and prepare a marriage room. But it depends on family conditions. If there are multiple properties at home, you can not buy a new house, or you can make a down payment by the man and the husband and wife share the mortgage. If the man really has difficulty in buying a house, he can also buy a house together. These all need to be negotiated between the two companies. How much to buy a house depends on the location and price of the city. Of course, renting a house is also acceptable. The most important thing is that both sides love each other, and the other side is really a person worth accompanying for life.
4. Wedding room layout
In addition to buying a house, ordinary boys also need to be responsible for the decoration of the wedding room and the configuration of furniture and appliances. If the woman has the conditions, she can also marry some electrical appliances. At the same time, the man also needs to prepare the decoration of the wedding room, including all kinds of red decorations, whole house happy character stickers, balloons, flowers, wedding ornaments happy character stickers, as well as dates, peanuts, longan, lotus seeds and so on. And the number is also better in pairs.
5, wedding photos
The bride and groom can choose the wedding photography team, shooting location and shooting style, and send the sweetest wedding photos.
6. Invitation letter
Whether it is necessary to prepare paper invitations and how many copies to prepare are up to the individual.
7. Wedding dress
Mainly includes the bride and groom's wedding dress, parents' clothing and bridesmaid's clothing. This custom varies from place to place. Some men pay, some buy, some women buy, and some men buy. The two sides can discuss and decide.
8. Wedding ceremony
At present, a reliable wedding company is generally chosen for weddings. Wedding Planning Detailed wedding arrangement and process. Some are one-stop services, and some need to be found later. This aspect needs to be decided by both parties according to their own preferences and budgets.
9. Wedding 4 donkey kong
Wedding donkey kong mainly includes wedding emcee, makeup artist, photography (follow-up) and video (wedding video). Some wedding companies will provide four donkey kong, while others will not. The expenses in this respect are mainly determined according to the requirements and budgets of both parties to the wedding.
10, wedding car
On the wedding day, the man is generally responsible for the wedding car fleet that greets the bride. It is more economical to hire a professional team or rent some high-end cars. Asking relatives and friends to help borrow the wedding car is an option. The man can decide according to his actual economic conditions.
1 1, wedding hotel
After counting the number of guests attending the day, you need to book the number of hotels at least three months in advance to determine the price and menu. Confirm the audio and lighting equipment at the wedding banquet and coordinate the layout details of the banquet hall. If there are foreign guests coming to the wedding, you need help to book a hotel. Who will be responsible for the money for the wedding banquet, but also refer to the customs and habits of various places. In some places, all the money is paid by the man. In some places, the man pays for the man's banquet, and the woman pays for the woman's banquet.
12, red envelope
Many red envelopes of different sizes need to be prepared on the wedding day, which will be blocked by bridesmaids. At this time, it will be helpful to prepare more small red envelopes. You also need to prepare some lucky red envelopes for children and staff.
13, change the red envelope
Generally speaking, the parents of the man need to change the fee for the bride in the tea ceremony.
14, wedding supplies
Tobacco and alcohol, fruit bowl snacks, candy melon seeds, red dates, peanuts, longan and lotus seeds are all essential wedding supplies. Sign-in books, cups, red mats, team flowers and happy characters also need to be prepared in advance.
15, accessories and gifts for groomsmen and bridesmaids
Parents, groomsman, bridesmaid, bridesmaid, brooch, wrist flower (whether provided in advance), groomsman gift (whether to send red envelopes or gifts according to local customs).