Still, I won't give up. After all, chasing girls can't be done overnight, and it needs to be nurtured slowly. Jiao Jiao is only 25 years old, two years younger than me. Her careless personality is particularly attractive. I was described as a friend. I'm not looking for someone, but looking for a little witch who can subdue me. Love is confusing, and I am willing to be Jiao Jiao's "loser".
One night, Jiao Jiao took the initiative to ask me out to dinner. I'm surprised. I've been dating her for two months. Every time I ask her out to dinner, I'm very excited. I think our relationship has finally broken the deadlock. I made full preparations and bought her a big bunch of flowers, but at the dinner table, she always drank alone, as if she didn't care about me at all.
"Jiao Jiao, what's bothering you? Go ahead, let me help you think about it. " I tried to convince her.
"You men don't have a good thing!" Jiao Jiao bold said.
My heart thumped. I heard something in this speech. What do you mean we men? Before I asked, Jiao Jiao spoke her mind. It turned out that she had been in love until she met me. Her boyfriend is her college classmate. They have been in love for four years, and their feelings have always been very good. This time she had a problem with her boyfriend before asking me out to relieve boredom.
Don't mention how sad I was when I heard this, but I still asked her doubtfully, "Since you are in love, why are you dating?"
"If it weren't for my mom's colleague's face, I wouldn't have a blind date." Jiao Jiao later complained to me that her mother didn't agree with her relationship with her boyfriend and didn't like her boyfriend's poor family conditions.
I don't know whether to be glad or to comfort her. I stopped her while she was drinking beer and finally persuaded her to open it. That time, I sent Jiao Jiao home a little drunk. When her mother saw me, she greeted me warmly and asked me if I was the last person introduced to Jiao Jiao by her colleague. I nodded politely, but I was a little flustered. From her warm attitude, I realized that she still had a good impression on me.
Afterwards, I thought about this problem rationally. Since Jiao Jiao's mother voluntarily entrusted a colleague to introduce her daughter to me, she must know my family and have no objection to me. In the eyes of the elderly, we are a match made in heaven, but her mother may not know that I am just their spare tire son-in-law ...
After learning about Jiao Jiao's emotional experience, I was a little swayed by considerations of gain and loss, until my friend reminded me that since I like Jiao Jiao, as long as she doesn't get married, who will live or die is unknown. Why not fight together? Anyway, with the support of "mother-in-law", we both have a 70-80 chance. I got up the courage to try, but one day not long after, I heard from Jiao Jiao that she was pregnant and was her boyfriend's child.
I struggled again, smiled and comforted her not to be sad, and the days in the future will gradually get better. Sure enough, seven days later, Jiao Jiao told me that my mother finally agreed to their marriage. I'm holding my mobile phone, and my hands are shaking involuntarily. Although I am sad, I still trust her.
After a few simple pleasantries, Jiao Jiao wriggled and begged me to help her for the last time, hoping that I would lend her 80,000 yuan. In order to marry her boyfriend, she lied to her mother that her boyfriend was going to buy a house in the city these days, but his family couldn't afford so much money, so ...
Listening to Jiao Jiao's helpless voice, I was silent for a while, and finally told her to let me think about it and give her an answer tomorrow. That day, I stayed up all night, sitting alone in the living room and drinking a lot of wine. I don't understand that I have a car, a house and a carefree life, but I can't get a girl I like. The poor boy had nothing, but he won the favor of Jiao Jiao. Is this the so-called love?
After thinking about it all night, I still don't know if I should lend her money. I am a timid spare tire. Is it selfish to ignore her, or is it boundless generosity?