When Nannan sent this message at eleven o'clock, I was about to put down my cell phone and go to bed.
Seeing this news, I immediately sat up and froze for a while, going to find Nannan. After all, menstruation once took my hand and told me to watch Nannan.
I took a taxi to Nannan's rental house. The taxi driver looked hostile when he saw that I was in a hurry.
"The girl is so anxious to see her boyfriend?"
"No, my boyfriend died three years ago."
"Why did you leave?" The driver began to sympathize.
"I was pulled into the civil affairs to get a certificate and became a husband."
The driver gave a wry smile. There is nothing to say all the way.
Hum, I am an ice-breaking expert, and my ambiguous shielding skills with many years of actual combat experience are not covered.
Nannan sat on the sofa crying pear flowers bring rain, and didn't eat a few mouthfuls of instant noodles on the table. It seems really hard.
"Elder sister, he sat in the back seat of the bus with me two days ago, intentionally or unintentionally holding my waist and saying that he likes to sit in the last row and think. He sent an invitation at the company this afternoon. "
"Elder sister, he accompanied me to see so many customers and told me so much. He also said that he would take me to see cherry blossoms. I've been waiting for him to pop the window paper. How could he not like me? "
"Elder sister, you said he was forced to get married? Do you think he really likes me? You said he ... "
"Nannan, these are not important." I stopped Nannan. "So, let's plan how to hit a venue tomorrow. Are you going to rob the wedding in public in a wedding dress, or are you going to put on mourning clothes and send him directly to the crematorium? "
After listening to my words, Nannan looked frightened.
People who really want to die don't tell others that they are going to hit a wall or jump into a river. By the same token, a powerful character who can really smash the venue and vote vigorously will never send me a WeChat friendship reminder in the middle of the night.
Nan Nan just graduated and failed the compulsory course of college love.
As the leader of Nannan Company, Chen Kun always shows warm men's care, and by the way, she sends out some literary sorrows to give a guide to the workplace. These seven meat and eight elements fascinate Nan Nan.
Nannan's inner deer bumped into each other, feeling the call of love, and the attribute of warm-hearted sweetheart was fully stimulated, thinking of the team leader everywhere and always thinking of the team leader.
Who would have thought that a fiancee fell from the sky and Chen Kun would get married tomorrow.
Nannan felt cheated, but he always felt that it would turn around.
It seems that Nannan has not been tempered by love, and has encountered a series of sequelae brought about by workplace ambiguity.
The only cure is to fight poison with poison.
I told Nannan my classic ambiguous bridge.
When I was in college, a boy chatted with me every day.
Talk about constellations, planning, ideals and everything.
He said that his Leo and my Libra are the best match.
He said that we could study abroad together.
He invited me to attend the school celebration.
One weekend morning, he was still talking to me about Aurora. At the class party in the evening, he held hands with a girl and introduced this to everyone as his girlfriend.
Yes, that girl just agreed to be his girlfriend two hours ago.
My heart is broken.
Naturally, I will be sad for a while and doubt myself for a while.
Later, I learned that he used the same routine to chat with more than a dozen girls.
This is the story of the famous cast of our class, Brother Net.
This nickname comes from his love motto: casting a wide net, focusing on training.
After listening, Nannan is happy.
"Ha ha ha ha ha, sister, you are so frustrated in college."
5, in fact, not all ambiguity can be laughed off.
I like to secretly love someone.
He is a teacher in a remedial class, five years older than me. I worked part-time in his counseling institution for three years, and I was an excellent lecturer trained by him.
I was a freshman when I first met him. He graduated for a year and just resigned and started to do remedial classes.
He rented several office buildings in the south and north of the city to tutor high school students in No.1 Middle School and No.2 Middle School. I have followed him since he started his business, distributing leaflets together, making lesson plans together and tirelessly shuttling through the city together. Even because of the malicious competition of other remedial classes, I stood at the gate of our school and pulled people, and I fought with him.
He said to me, "You have a beautiful smile."
He said to me, "Don't worry, I will go through fire and water for you."
Because of these words, I can devote myself to his teaching assistant career without pay or time.
Until I heard it, he said to other girls, "You look good when you smile."
I questioned it.
He said he didn't want a girlfriend or a marriage. He needed a woman who worked hard for him.
Once, because of his confession, I had a secret crush.
I was exhausted by this ambiguity and decided to change my job. He didn't insist on staying.
Two months later, he suddenly called me and asked me if I would like to help with another class. I said, "I need money. Can you call me 10 thousand now? "
He paused for a long time and said, "I can only give you three thousand at most."
I hung up and deleted all his contact information.
Many years have passed since then.
However, I will occasionally search his school's official WeChat account, look at the school's news, look for his traces, and know that he is fine, so I will feel at ease.
Some ambiguity will burn your heart and leave an indelible mark.
6. After that, I asked Nan Nan, "Are you still going to smash the venue?"
Nannan, look at me.
I said, "I want to go, but I have to give up." In this way, no matter how high the position, it is hard to hurt you. "
"Don't go. I just want to have a good sleep now. "
"I think so too." I'm finally relieved.
You see, these ambiguities are easily defeated in the face of drowsiness and hunger.
Ambiguity is something you can't escape, and you will have immunity after experience.
Ambiguity is such a thing that it hurts people, but it doesn't kill people. It always hurts for a while.
Ambiguity can happen anytime and anywhere in study, life and workplace. These ambiguities may be hormones that young people have nowhere to put, small teasing by middle-aged greasy uncles, or necessary regulators in the workplace.
Perhaps only through experience can we learn to smile, instead of delving into it and not falling into it.
When you encounter ambiguity, you should enrich your life experience, but don't take it seriously.
How can someone who really loves you be hurt by ambiguity?