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Nowadays, many young people have no plans to get married, and so does Miaomiao. After graduation, Miaomiao stayed in Beijing and joined the Beipiao clan.
Because Miaomiao is beautiful, she found a job easily. Compared with those fresh graduates who delayed submitting their resumes for half a month, Miaomiao is very lucky.
I have a job to support myself. I've been alone for a long time, and Miaomiao has come to like this unrestrained feeling. For a long time, Miaomiao has no plans to fall in love.
Therefore, Miaomiao put more energy into himself, worked hard, went out with friends regularly and insisted on physical exercise.
A few years later, Miaomiao not only had a proud figure, but also had a thriving job. With a monthly salary of tens of thousands of yuan, Miaomiao bought a suite.
Although there are many suitors around, none of them is Miaomiao's favorite. With the growth of age, Miaomiao has been in his thirties.
Miaomiao is also a little worried when she looks at all her friends who are married and her parents in her hometown urging them from a distance. After all, he is a "long-standing problem".
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As there was no favorite among the familiar people, Miaomiao mobilized his friends to introduce himself. Through the introduction of friends, Miaomiao really met a nice man.
Wang Gang's appearance is very handsome. He is both a gentleman and gentle in front of Miaomiao. For Miaomiao, who has the title of "leftover woman", Miaomiao is very satisfied to find such a boyfriend.
But the only bad thing is that Wang Gang doesn't have much money. His salary is several thousand yuan a month. Since he wanted to be with Wang Gang, Miaomiao also took the initiative to bear most of the expenses during their love, but Wang Gang didn't mention anything about it.
Wang Gang has a sweet mouth, and every time he can boast that Miaomiao is very happy. Although Wang Gang likes to brag and is late for appointments from time to time, Miaomiao thinks that no boy would be so careless.
Although Miaomiao's friends have some opinions about this, let Miaomiao talk about Wang Gang, but instead of being angry with Wang Gang, Miaomiao still thinks that Wang Gang is so real and lovely.
For Miaomiao, there is a person who promises himself all his life, which is enough to make him crazy, and he won't listen to others.
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The relationship between Wang Gang and Miaomiao quickly warmed up, and it wasn't long before they talked about marriage. For their wedding, Wang Gang said it was up to him.
And also promised Miaomiao that the bride price should be at least 200,000 yuan. Miaomiao was afraid that Wang Gang couldn't afford it and didn't care about money, so he advised Wang Gang to give less.
However, Wang Gang said that 200,000 is 200,000, which is his plan for Miaomiao. In addition, others bought three golds and wanted to give Miaomiao hardware. Looking at this man, Miaomiao is full of expectations for the future.
Originally, I planned to get engaged at the end of the year, but not long after, Miaomiao found herself pregnant, so the engagement had to be advanced. However, when engaged, Wang Gang said that the bride price of 200,000 was only given to 20,000. Wang Gang shirked that time was short and there was no time to prepare so much money.
Fortunately, Miaomiao only told his parents about the 80,000 bride price, so Miaomiao paid 60,000 out of his own pocket and received 80,000 bride price. As for the hardware mentioned by Wang Gang, he only bought a pair of gold bracelets that day.
Miaomiao was a little uncomfortable. Wang Gang spoke very well, but he couldn't, and Wang Gang just coaxed Miaomiao with that mouth.
Through this engagement, although on the surface, they were amiable, but when they got home, Miaomiao's parents thought that Wang Gang was a bit unreliable, and the conditions in Wang Gang's family were much worse than their own.
Parents advised Miaomiao to think it over, and if he didn't like it, he would return these things, but Miaomiao, who was madly in love, didn't listen and thought his parents were insulting his love.
In this way, at the insistence of Miaomiao, Wang Gang and Miaomiao got married at the end of the year.
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After marriage, when the passion of love slowly faded, Miaomiao felt a little late. First of all, her husband actually lives in the house he bought with his family.
Originally, Miaomiao didn't want to live with the old man, but Wang Gang's father was in poor health. Wang Gang said it was good to take care of the elderly, but Miaomiao couldn't refute anything.
If it is reasonable to take the elderly to live, then Wang Gang has no enthusiasm at all after getting married, which makes Miaomiao feel very uncomfortable.
Because Miaomiao got married, his parents gave them a car, so Wang Gang simply resigned, saying that sports cars made more money and came faster.
However, Wang Gang ran off the bus for several months, but Miaomiao didn't see any money. He had to give Wang Gang some money from time to time, and the expenses at home were basically borne by Miaomiao.
Worst of all, Wang Gang actually listened to his mother. Wang Gang usually likes to brag. Mother-in-law thinks that Wang Gang can make money very much, so she looks for Miaomiao to take money from time to time, because she thinks it's all earned by her son, and when relatives of her sister-in-law uncle come, Miaomiao pays.
Miaomiao is a very competitive woman. To save face and marriage, Miaomiao broke her tooth and swallowed it.
Miaomiao thinks that his temporary compromise will make Wang Gang mature. However, Wang Gang's sports car is not only unsightly, but also goes home to play games.
Miaomiao said a few words about Wang Gang, but Wang Gang was even angry, saying that Miaomiao looked down on himself when he earned more, didn't know himself at all, and didn't support his career.
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For the sake of face and marriage, Miaomiao kept using money to help Wang Gang lie.
For example, my sister-in-law borrowed tens of thousands of dollars for the renovation of her new house, saying that borrowing money was actually a waste, and her sister-in-law was not prepared to pay back the money at all.
When the brother-in-law got married, the mother-in-law let Wang Gang and Miaomiao share 65438+ 10,000 yuan. Miaomiao bullet, or give, but Miaomiao can hardly support this lie, she was almost hollowed out by Wang Gang.
Recently, Miaomiao's belly is getting bigger and bigger, and Miaomiao has applied for maternity leave from the company, hoping to get some care at this time.
Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law said to Miaomiao, "My niece is pregnant, too. Anyway, the house at home is big and you can take care of your niece together. "
For her mother-in-law, Miaomiao really can't stand it. With long-held unhappiness and prenatal depression, Miaomiao directly said to her mother-in-law: "It is not enough to support the family. You want me to raise your daughter's family. You really should be your son's annual income. "
Miaomiao's words made her mother-in-law very angry. She spends her son's money and lives in his house. She just took her daughter to take care of her. It's selfish of her daughter-in-law to react so much.
In this way, mother-in-law and Miaomiao became enemies. When Wang Gang came back in the evening, her mother-in-law said that Wang Gang should take care of her daughter-in-law.
I thought Wang Gang, who knew the truth, would stand by and watch. Who knows that Wang Gang actually helped her mother reprimand herself and let herself have a daughter-in-law, which made Miaomiao very angry and immediately quarreled with Wang Gang.
Through this quarrel, Miaomiao also saw some facts and began to reflect on how she became an independent woman.
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In the marriage between Miaomiao and Wang Gang, there are undoubtedly great problems. Wang Gang has no sense of responsibility, no ambition, loves to talk big, takes his parents as the mainstay, and has many problems.
And Miaomiao, before getting married, didn't see Wang Gang's character clearly, only valued Wang Gang's appearance and lusted after Wang Gang's gentleness and eloquence.
After marriage, in order to save face, he didn't expose the fact that Wang Gang couldn't make money. Instead, he helped Wang Gang weave a lie and let Wang Gang's family think that Wang Gang was very powerful.
It can be said that the misfortune of Miaomiao's marriage was largely caused by Miaomiao herself, and she gradually overcame the shamelessness of Wang Gang and his family.
Miaomiao's blind concession and tolerance made the relationship between them out of balance, which turned into Miaomiao's unilateral efforts and Wang Gang's and his family's endless demands.
If Miaomiao could keep the bottom line of marriage, Miaomiao's marriage wouldn't be like this.
In fact, Miaomiao is like this because Miaomiao is not independent enough. Although Miaomiao seems to be independent, he still wants to live by men.
Miaomiao's experience also reminds everyone that when you choose a marriage partner, you must pay attention to the other person's personality.
Don't care too much about appearance and material things, know more before marriage and eat less after marriage. Marriage is a major event in life, so be careful.
In marriage and feelings, we must have our own principles and bottom lines, and don't blindly tolerate each other, so that feelings can go further.