The reason why men don't get married
1, life pressure is too great.
In modern society, the main pressure comes from work and life. Facing the challenge of marriage is not as simple as making friends. It is necessary to solve a series of practical problems such as houses and cars. The pressure of these lives is enough for men to choose to give up marriage.
There is not enough money.
In addition to the house and car, it is more important to have enough money to live. From the moment I am about to say goodbye to being single, I will spend money to cultivate my feelings. Preparations for marriage are basically accompanied by money, and it is naturally impossible to live without enough money after marriage.
3. Pick and choose.
It may be that many older men have talked about many girlfriends, including cohabitation, and then when faced with the sensitive word marriage, they always can't bear to bury themselves quickly, so they start to be picky and pick one after another. In the end, what you like is not suitable for others, and what others like is not suitable for you.
4. For the so-called study and career.
I thought I was learning endlessly, and I was always in a state of learning. As a result, I went to college for an undergraduate course and then went to graduate school. After graduate school, I still want to study for a doctorate. I was already in my thirties, but I just didn't want to get married. I have been waiting for more choices in the future.
5. Single people.
Obviously, they don't want to get married, like celibacy, like freedom, don't like being bound by others, and don't need the bondage of life, especially married men. Of course, they are not as free as unmarried men, so most older men are selfish.
6. Wait and see the players.
Cohabitation is ok, but there is absolutely no need to study marital affairs, even people who have lived together for a long time. Some of them have lived together for many years, but they just don't want to talk about marriage. If it is put forward by their girlfriends, they will find a reasonable and grand reason for her to wait. This older man is a typical wait-and-see player, watching the bowl and the pot.
7, feelings have been severely hit.
Most older men will be more rational about marriage and listen to their parents' opinions. After all, men of that era still had the consciousness of obeying the overall situation in their bones. As a result, they often hurt themselves by obeying the overall situation. After their feelings were severely hit, they lost confidence in love.
8. Fear of taking responsibility.
This kind of old man has his own small abacus and a clear target, but he has not succeeded yet. Therefore, he will wait until he succeeds before changing the target of the attack. If he fails, he will only find a woman in front of him, and he will be seriously afraid of taking responsibility and stealing opportunities.
9. A woman who doesn't really love.
It is easy to like a woman, but this kind of love will never reach the point of love, just like it, so I can only choose to chat and live together for a while before I can get married, and the final result is to choose to be single. This kind of old man is fragile in his bones and generally doesn't believe in true love.
10, do not like women.
Is an older man, the youngest is about 30 years old and the oldest is about 40 years old. A person, standing at thirty, is not confused at forty. If he really doesn't fall in love and get married, then maybe he is gay and doesn't like women at all.
Wedding customs in countries all over the world
Indian wedding: for sacrifice
In the eyes of Hindus, the primary purpose of marriage is to perform various religious duties, among which sacrifice is the most important; However, men must get married and have children before they are eligible to worship their ancestors. So at the wedding, both husband and wife chanted, prayed and swore an oath. The husband made it clear to his wife: I married you to have a son. Priests and others also blessed them for this.
Danish wedding: held in secret
To our surprise, wedding planning will take several days, but it will be done in secret, because public planning will offend ghosts or cause them to be jealous. At the end of the wedding, people walked into the garden with a big can of beer. The bride and groom put their hands above the jar, and then the jar was smashed to pieces. The marriageable women present will clean up the mess. The woman who finds the biggest piece is destined to be the first to get married, while the woman who finds the smallest piece is destined to never get married.
German wedding: smash bowls and pots for good luck
The guests invited to the wedding each brought a few broken bowls, plates, plates, bottles and the like. They think it can help newlyweds get rid of their past troubles and usher in a sweet start. On the long road of life, the couple can always maintain a warm love, stay together for life and grow old together.
Russian wedding: complaining
Someone will shout at the wedding reception? Bitter! Bitter! ? Whenever someone takes the lead in shouting, everyone present will echo in unison, and then the couple will stand up and kiss deeply in public. In a few minutes, someone will shout again. Bitter? The bride and groom stood up again and calmed the cries of relatives and friends with a sweet kiss? Bitter? Sound? Like this? Program? At the wedding banquet, it must be repeated at least a dozen times before friends and relatives will stop. It turns out that, according to Russians, wine is bitter and unpalatable, and it needs a new kiss to sweeten it.
French wedding: romantic and simple
Getting engaged before marriage is a simple ceremony. Usually, the woman's parents invite the man's parents, brothers and sisters, or invite other relatives or even one or two friends to attend. The wedding has been gradually simplified, but it is still the most solemn family festival, with solemn and sacred colors. The wedding was presided over by the mayor or one of his deputies. Traditionally, weddings are held on Tuesdays, Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays from 9 am to 5 pm. Guests after the wedding banquet.
Jewish wedding: don't forget jihad
After the blessing, the groom broke the glass with his right foot, symbolizing the memory of the destruction of the temple in that year (AD 70), reminding people never to forget the sad moment when the temple in Jerusalem was destroyed. But in modern weddings, people use this custom to express the fragility of interpersonal relationships, the beginning of a new life and the abandonment of all prejudice and ignorance.
Japanese Wedding: Traditional Taoism
In traditional Japanese Taoist rituals, people worship Kami, a god existing in nature. At the wedding, the clergy prayed to the gods to bless the newlyweds. What is the last item of the ceremony? * * * Drink green wine? People attending the wedding shared rice wine with three flat cups. These three cups are placed in turn from bottom to top. The groom picked up the first cup, took three sips of wine and handed it to the bride. The bride also took three sips of wine in succession, and then handed the glass to other relatives and friends. Then start drinking the second and third glasses of wine.
Indian wedding: quiet
The wedding of Canadian Indian chiefs has a strong national color. Weddings are usually held in public buildings in Indian settlements, usually a big wooden house. At the wedding, relatives, friends, neighbors and villagers came to the wooden house one after another, and everyone sat on the floor and greeted each other. Men, women and children all wear national costumes with novel styles and bright colors. Although Indians are cheerful, the wedding occasion is very quiet, even if they speak softly.
Finnish Wedding Combining Tradition and Innovation
Modern Finns should not only be innovative and distinctive when holding weddings, but also embody their traditional customs, such as throwing rice and cutting wedding cakes. Modern wedding can be described as a combination of classical and romantic. The luxury wedding car is decorated with tinkling tin cans, and the groom will carry the bride across the threshold. For modern Finns, these are the real traditions.
Abide by the ancient tradition of weddings in the Philippines
Usually at weddings, the bride wears a traditional white wedding dress and the groom wears traditional Filipino men's wear. This kind of dress is a transparent button-down shirt for men, which is usually used to attend some special parties or important occasions. The organizer of the wedding will attend the wedding to witness the couple becoming husband and wife. And these organizers also mean guidance and help, that is, newlyweds can get their generous help when they need it.