I believe that all married people have this experience. Getting married is a tiring and happy thing, especially on the wedding day, there will be a whole set of processes waiting for the new couple to complete. So you must know the whole process of the wedding in advance, and know the customs of both men and women before the wedding, so as not to be caught off guard on the wedding day. The following article is one of the wedding strategies. Read carefully and I believe you will gain something.
Most people want to meet the right person at their best age and spend their whole lives together, but it is not so easy to meet a loved one, so many people would rather be alone than make do with it. Let's see what age we see as a late marriage ~
1. What is the age of marriage? Late marriage, best age for marriage.
The Marriage Law stipulates that the age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 for men and 20 for women. At the same time, the national and provincial population and family planning policies and regulations all put forward "encouraging late marriage and late childbirth, having fewer and healthier children, and advocating a couple to have one child". According to the Regulations on Population and Family Planning, a man marries for the first time at the age of 25 and a woman marries for the first time at the age of 23, which is a late marriage; A married woman who has reached the age of 23 is pregnant and gives birth to her first child. Late marriage and late childbearing can enjoy preferential family planning policies.
The marriage law does not stipulate the age of late marriage. It's just that the current family planning policy encourages late marriage, and the first marriage between men and women at the age of 25 and 23 is late marriage.
The age of late marriage is different from the legal age of marriage. It is not mandatory, but an age of marriage that is encouraged and advocated.
Second, how old is it to get married?
1, marriage can be said to be not a matter for two families, unless your energy is particularly small, or at least one of them is a privileged class. But marriage is not just about two people. Marriage is a combination of two social relations and two interests.
2. This combination also needs a natural process, including two aspects: First, the relative determination of personal life values, you may want to change careers, go abroad, and start a business for each other, which is no problem. The problem is that you can express the judgment standard of your future options, and this standard is your values; Second, the emotional experience is absolutely complete. This is to determine the love you want through experience accumulation. There is definitely no need to say this before. This is the accumulation of understanding of the opposite sex, which can be reading or anything, but you must have a type and direction.
3. How old are you getting married? In fact, the ideal marriage age is the right person to meet after this standard is determined. So whether you are 20, 30 or 40 years old, as long as your standards are determined, such a marriage will be more stable, more suitable and more in line with your development direction and life needs.
3. What is the age gap between men and women?
1. Men are happiest when they are five years older than women.
A graduate survey shows that 1000 couples have the best feelings, and the man is about 5 years older than the woman. This combination is not easy to produce contradictions, and the divorce rate is the lowest.
2. My brother and sister are happy, too.
In addition to the above combination, the relationship between brother and sister is also quite happy. On the one hand, when a girl is older, knowing how to take care of her is conducive to the emotional exchange between them. In addition, although the woman is older, her thoughts are more naive, and the man is younger, her psychological age is mature and her work is relatively stable. So this combination is the most stable and happiest.
3. Men and women of the same age are easy to communicate.
The same age here is not the same age, but the same generation, so that their values and outlook on life are more consistent and many contradictions can be reduced and avoided. For example, Obama and mihir are only three years apart, but their marriage is very happy.
The survey shows that in modern times, it is more appropriate for a girl to marry a man aged 32 to 36 at the age of 24 to 26 in large and medium-sized cities in China. In other words, it is better for girls to get married before the age of 25, and it is more appropriate to marry a man who is 5 to 14 years older than you. If a girl reaches the age of 25 (26 at the latest) and doesn't marry herself as soon as possible, it will be even more difficult to get married later.
But boys are ok, as the saying goes, "a man is 40 flowers" and "a woman is 40 years old."
Now there are more and more boys in big cities, and they don't get married until they are 30 years old. Why do you say that? There are many reasons:
Reason 1: Judging from the changes in the appearance and posture of men and women, girls are generally over 25 years old, and they are declining day by day, and the speed is very fast. At the age of 30, they look a little old.
A woman is like the moon. It will be full at the age of 25. Why do girls age so fast? In addition to the genetic effect, it is also because women have menstruation every month and have lost body elements for many years. Boys are different. Boys grow slower than girls since childhood, and they begin to decline around the age of 35, much slower than girls.
An elder sister in her fifties said that when she was 20 years old, she fell in love with a man 16 years older than her. Later, her parents said that the age gap was too big, and 30 years later, she said that the man was younger than she looked.
As the saying goes, "women don't live to be old, men don't live to be old", which fully illustrates the physiological differences between men and women.
No matter how big the age gap is between two people who love each other, it is easier to love each other than to be together as long as there is any difficulty in loving each other. If you have missed the best age, don't miss the best person again.