Dialogue from people in the workplace: Why can't I stop the car when I jump ship at 10 for 20 times?

Does the help email from Ali include? After 80? 、? Frequent job hopping? 、? Confused? Words like that. After reading this, there seems to be an image of a young, uneasy and overwhelmed job seeker.

On the appointed day, it was less than two o'clock in the afternoon, and Ali in a white shirt had arrived early. He said that he had just attended the second interview at noon and had a good chance of winning. This application is only half a month from the last departure. Looking at this tall young man with a confident smile and greeting me with a skillful and decent posture and tone, it seems hard to let go? Confused? This word has something to do with him.

The work is as long as one year and as short as one month.

? I have changed many jobs: hotel waiter, salesman, bartender, courier, taxi driver, wedding company salesman, master of ceremonies, three-dimensional animation designer, post-editor, public relations planner, magazine editor, marketing specialist and marketing director. I started my own business, too Not long after I sat down in the teahouse, Ali, who was young, gave me a scary job list. List? There are many cross-industry jumps.

I/KLOC-graduated from a vocational high school at the age of 0/7, majoring in hotel management. My first job in my life was as a hotel doorman. This is the arrangement of the school. I think this job has the worry of eating a youthful meal. So in the next three years, I changed jobs several times, but I couldn't get rid of the hotel work circle. You realize that? Charging? Resigned in 2000 and went to a university in Beijing to study marketing. After graduating and returning to Shanghai four years later, the choice is much bigger.

So, I had a plan in my mind: before I was 30, as an accumulation period, I allowed myself to jump ship and try various industries. On the one hand, see what I am best suited to do and which industry has development opportunities; On the other hand, it can also accumulate contacts in various industries. So I must have chosen the unit and position I am interested in before I go to the interview. I was confident when I entered the job, and I was crisp and neat when I left.

Ali told me that his parents didn't put any pressure on him in this process. ? I was very independent since I was a child, and my parents let me go. I still have great confidence in my personal ability. For example, doing housework is not difficult for me except knitting. This is definitely not an exaggeration! So I went to Beijing to study or something, and my parents were very supportive. ?

With my ability, it is not that difficult to find a job. So I change jobs frequently. I have been doing long work for nearly a year and short work for only a month. According to my statistics, from the age of 17, not counting the four years of studying in Beijing, I worked for 10, during which I actually jumped ship 20 times except for my own company for more than three years. I have a lot of interests and learn things quickly, so I have done some work despite cross-industry. Quitting those jobs is definitely not because you are incompetent, but because of yourself? Can't sit still.

? Only the job of bartender, because the boss wants to leave this position to others, so I have to leave. I resigned voluntarily. ? Ali added. However, in the face of the fact that over 30 years old, it is still difficult to settle down in a post, Ali is not calm. Married four years ago, my wife has a stable job, and we have a good relationship. She wants me straight out? Be practical? . But I don't know what happened. I jumped out of my habit. In order to help him clear his mind, I asked him to talk about his longest job and see what made him. Can't sit still.

I don't like being tied down at all.

I still feel that working in that clothing company for one year is infinitely fulfilling and enjoyable. This company is run by a foreign boss. I was recruited at the beginning of the company. This position is a regional marketing manager, responsible for the marketing business in Shanghai. Who is the boss? Flying trapeze? He trusted me very much and gave me an office and a car in Shanghai. He only needs to submit a report to him every week or half a month to do business. Including local recruitment, I also arranged it myself. I like design, and it's easy to get inspiration in the clothing industry. At that time, many of my ideas were approved by my boss and my business was booming.

? During that time, I did a good job and my work was very passionate. ? Recalling the past, Ali was in high spirits, but the topic still had to be brought back. ? As a veteran of the company, the work is so satisfactory, why do you want to leave after one year? ? Ali said that's because some changes have taken place in the company.

At that time, the company structure was adjusted, and a good sales director who worked with me jumped ship. As soon as he left, I felt that the work could not be carried out at once. What's more, an assistant boss was parachuted into the company headquarters with great authority. Originally, my direct communication with my boss suddenly became through him. Plus, I've been working for almost a year, and my request for a raise has never been answered. I can't help feeling that my boss doesn't trust me as much as before. Several factors combined, I decided to leave.

When I first came here, there were very few employees in this company. By the time I left, there were already 200 employees. It's a pity to leave.

? I hate being tied down. ? Ali himself concluded. Finding a job is not afraid of hard work; Just one thing: I hope the boss is a bole, can attach importance to me and trust me, and let me do something freely to realize my ideas. Usually, my idea will always succeed. ?

In retrospect, I felt similar when I gave up some other jobs. I just don't like to follow other people's ideas, but I hope others will accept my ideas. When my subordinates can't complete the task according to my requirements, I'd rather go into battle in person and make the desired effect no matter how tired I am. When I find that the boss's ideas don't match, I will make suggestions. I will be angry if they are not adopted. Sometimes I don't like some colleagues, but I don't agree with the boss, but I keep my mouth shut. On the other hand, I always have something to say. Is it inappropriate for me to be too high-profile

It can be seen that Ali is seriously combing his own experience and trying to introspect it. I also frankly told him my thoughts: if you have something to say, it should not be a problem, but how to deal with it if you don't get the expected feedback in the future depends on your endurance and adaptability. If the boss doesn't adopt your idea, will you feel rejected as a whole? ? Ali said: Yes, I will be locked in the office for a long time, wondering why they did this to me. Am I thinking too much? ? Ali and I laughed at the same time. I saw him smile and take out a notebook from his bag, which read? Tolerance? And then what? Adaptability? These two words.

Want to start a business after 40.

It stands to reason that people like Ali who want a high degree of professional autonomy should be willing to start a business, so why did they start a company and give up? When I asked questions, Ali's eyes lit up and told me that his ideal was actually to start his own business.

That year, I just quit my job as a wedding salesman. With my understanding of the industry, I borrowed a sum of money from my parents to start a wedding company and set up my own? Facade The wedding industry pays attention to creativity. With my own mind, I quickly put the company on the right track with an annual turnover of 250,000. But after more than three years, I feel that money is too easy to earn and I have relaxed my management; Secondly, when I was about to get married, I spent a lot of savings traveling around. As a result, the company went downhill and finally provided it to others. I went back to the talent market to look for a job.

Ali is unwilling to talk about more details about the failure of this venture. Only when asked if I felt sorry, I was silent for a few seconds and nodded heavily. Unfortunately. ?

At present, my biggest goal is to settle down. Frequent job-hopping has brought me rich experience and friends from all walks of life, but in terms of career consistency and wealth accumulation, I am quite disadvantaged. My parents, who have always supported me, will remind me now that I have to settle down and pay money continuously before I can get social security. Thinking about my wife and future children, as a man, I really should reassure my family. I want to control the number of job-hopping before I turn 40.

Actually, I'm looking for a job this time, and I'm here already? Stable? This goal depends on it. I did a good job in my last job and my boss wanted to keep me. But that company only has about 10 people. I think small companies are always unstable. I went to a big company for an interview today. In my eyes, the rules and regulations of big companies are relatively stable, so I should be able to stay longer.

Ali said that if all goes well, he still hopes to start a business after 40. ? Having done so many industries, I feel most about these three areas: catering, wedding and clothing, and I want to make some distinctive brands in these areas. I believe I will get better and better. Where there are dreams, there is a stage! ? In Ali's opinion, do what you like? Still the most important dream in life.

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