First, the traditional customs and modern changes of bride price
As a part of China's traditional marriage culture, the bride price has a long history, but with the passage of time and social progress, the payment method and timing of the bride price are also changing. In traditional customs, the bride price is usually the property given by the man or his family to the woman or his family after the two families agree to get married to show sincerity and respect. This kind of payment often occurs before the wedding, either at the time of engagement or in the preparation stage of the wedding.
However, in modern society, more and more young people begin to pay attention to personal feelings and freedom of marriage, and the payment method and timing of bride price have become more flexible. Some couples choose to pay the bride price before the wedding after receiving the marriage certificate to show that the two sides formally confirm the marriage relationship; Others choose to pay on the wedding day or after the wedding to increase the festive atmosphere.
Second, the families of both sides reached an agreement through consultation.
The time and method of bride price payment ultimately need to be agreed by both families. This involves many factors such as the cultural background, economic situation and personal wishes of both families. If there is no clear agreement on the time of bride price payment between the two families, then the husband and wife can negotiate according to the actual situation and the wishes of the other party.
In the process of negotiation, newcomers should respect each other's cultural background and family traditions, and also consider their own actual situation and economic ability. If there are differences on the payment time of bride price, both parties can reach an understanding through communication, understanding and compromise.
Third, communication and understanding between newcomers.
In addition to family consultations, newlyweds also need to fully communicate and understand the bride price issue. After all, marriage is a matter for two people, and the payment of bride price should also be based on the feelings and wishes of both parties. If the newlyweds have different views on the timing of bride price payment, they can find the most suitable solution through frank communication, mutual listening and respect for each other's opinions.
To sum up:
There is no fixed time to pay the bride price, which depends on local customs, the agreement of both families and the negotiation between newcomers. When deciding the timing of bride price payment, we should not only respect the traditional culture and family background, but also take into account the changes in modern society and the personal wishes of newcomers. Through the negotiation between the two families and the communication and understanding between the newlyweds, the most suitable payment method for bride price is found.
Legal basis:
At present, there is no clear legal provision on the time of bride price payment. However, it should be noted that the bride price, as a marriage custom, should abide by laws and regulations and must not violate social morality and public order and good customs. When paying the bride price, both parties should follow the principles of voluntariness, equality, honesty and credit, and avoid excessive consumption and extravagance.
In addition, according to the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, marriage should be based on the complete voluntariness of both men and women, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party or any third party to interfere. Therefore, on the issue of bride price, both families and newlyweds should respect each other's wishes and choices, so as to avoid damaging the harmony and stability of marriage relationship because of the issue of bride price.