Now boys don't chase girls for anything. Faced with such a dilemma, the most anxious thing is the elders of the children. But it's no use worrying. They are not "ungrateful", but under the pressure of rapid social development. Why don't boys chase girls now?
Now, why do boys chase girls for nothing? 1 1, daily life is so hard, why should they add a fairy to themselves?
People are hard to push down, which was a popular online word two years ago. Explain that the road of life has been so hard, and some things don't need to be exposed.
Yes, the market competition in modern society is becoming increasingly fierce. In the past, there was only a big competition between people. Now with the development trend of artificial intelligence technology, your enemy may also be intelligent robots.
A paid job is a problem in itself, not to mention the cost of supporting the elderly and falling in love. Therefore, it is still poverty that limits everyone's execution.
2. Perfect love cannot be pursued.
Some boys think that true love is fair, so why pursue girls? Yes, feelings are equal in front of you, but there may be a question of the probability of high and low. If you don't join the team first, it's hard to take the emotional one-way street.
The pursuit of perfection and confession is not a sign of men's success and winning girls' favor, but a commitment to girls' service. Then I will love your data signal, and the influence of two people in the relationship is fair.
3. Busy at work
Men generally have the consciousness that if they fail at work, they can't give happiness to their beloved girls, so they are psychologically immature and won't take the initiative to pursue girls before they have enough material conditions, but in fact such an idea will make him miss many opportunities and may let go of his true love.
Not all girls only care about money and chemicals. Believe in yourself, a girl who really loves you wants to work hard with you and start a business from scratch. Having said that, in fact, social factors, ideology and family injuries will make today's boys hate actively chasing girls.
In fact, as long as it is congenial, whoever opens this mouth first is ok, and will not let himself lose face and reduce the price.
I hope everyone can find the most lovable person in the hard daily life. Time pays off, mountains and seas can be leveled, and there is no need to let some various factors endanger your chances of happiness.
Now boys have been chasing girls for two years. Falling in love and talking about marriage is a thing that makes his blood boil for any young man who has reached the age of marriage and love. On the other hand, although people's living standards have further improved, most young people are quite contradictory when talking about marriage, or avoid talking about it. This seems to tell everyone that young people nowadays are a little "ungrateful". In fact, when it comes to inner bitterness, young people are completely like dumb people eating Rhizoma Coptidis.
For today's boys, poor boys dare not chase girls, and some conditions are unwilling to chase them. If you ask them why. They think that the current love is very strange, and it is difficult for boys to bind a girl to resist all kinds of temptations in society, and chasing girls is too tired. It may have been chased for a long time, but it was finally taken away by other boys, which lost a lot of time and wasted a lot of feelings. Over time, boys are too lazy to chase, preferring to play games at home. In fact, after all, today's love is too emotional and energetic.
For girls, poor boys are afraid to marry, afraid of suffering and being laughed at by relatives and friends. It is difficult for rich children to meet people who are sincere and don't care. Therefore, it is difficult for them to meet a marriage partner who satisfies them. Not only that, girls' working ability and intelligence are not worse than boys', and they can support themselves. For them, it is meaningless to get married because they can't find someone they are satisfied with. On the contrary, they are happier when they are single and don't have to bear the pain of having children.
Faced with such a dilemma, the most anxious thing is the elders of the children. But it is useless to worry, because this is not a family where children are "ungrateful" and do not know how to pursue happiness. That is, they are under pressure from the rapid development of society. Because of the popularization of education, young children know that backwardness will be left far behind, and the continuous acceleration of social rhythm has not given ordinary people the opportunity to love you and me every day. With the change of people's thinking, most people are obsessed with romantic love patterns similar to those in Korean dramas. In this mode, the performance of "prince" and "princess" also intensifies the ideological contradiction between ordinary men and women. Although all this seems disappointing and annoying. But it is undoubtedly an improvement.
The two major missions of mankind are survival and development. Talking about marriage is not a better survival and development if there are conditions for marriage! The so-called love is just a kind of wealth in the spiritual world of human beings, although it deserves great praise. But we can't ask everyone to abandon everything for love, because everyone is different and there is no right or wrong.
Now boys don't chase girls for anything. First of all, now is the era of free love between men and women, and the pursuit of equality between men and women. But the equality between men and women is deliberately demonized by pastoral feminists. First of all, it is to talk about marriage and make yourself materialistic. Many people say that girls pay more for having children, so it is only fair that they need more compensation from the south. If someone comes out at this time, a large number of women's rights will immediately jump out and say that it is not difficult to have children, and you can have them. I don't know what the biological instinct of carrying on the family line is. In the eyes of modern women, men should pay for all this. I have never seen a child, and all the benefits have been taken away by men.
Because of a biological value, girls tend to have their eyes above the top. It is common for a waitress with a monthly salary of 3,000 to look down on a courier with a monthly salary of 1 10,000. But is the reproductive value in the eyes of girls really that important in the eyes of men? Now there is a joke on the internet that it is not easy to meet a good girl now. If a girl doesn't want your car, your room, lipstick, shopping, eating and watching movies with her. She just wants to chat with you when you are tired. Is it too much to massage you every time? A joke is a joke, but think carefully about the logic behind it. Let's think it over. What value can a woman with a monthly salary of 3,000 to 5,000 provide for men besides fertility and fertility?
If boys don't pay attention to these values at all, the cost of chasing girls is very unequal, and they may be rejected after paying. If you don't buy bags, lipsticks, cosmetics, small red envelopes and flowers on holidays, this money may make a boy unable to accumulate at all, that is, it is very likely that there will be no savings after a love talk. If you don't buy them, you are digging. By the time the romance started, when it comes to marriage, the power of women's rights has just begun. You need to prepare bride price garage hardware, wedding travel and wedding banquet. Every sum is not a small sum. You are a little dissatisfied with having children and moving out because you don't love me.
Even if the boy's family conditions are good, there are parents who can help. If the family conditions are not good, the woman even borrows from relatives and friends. Such heartless words can be said. Finally, men find that life is precious and love is more expensive. The ancients did not deceive me. You said that boys who are a little more rational now, who dare to have wild desires, can only be forced into love rat. On the way to love rat, everything happened.