In cities, it is usually the man who pays and the two sides do it together. There is a T-shaped wedding table in the middle of the banquet, with a relative on each side. The chairman is accompanied by the parents of the newlyweds and the bridesmaids and groomsmen. The host will preside over the wedding, and the wedding company will decide the details after the couple negotiate. This is equal, convenient and lively. Is that the answer?

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