I. Participation
When the children of both sides passed the test of love and entered the stage of talking about marriage, the parents of both sides began to get busy. The best way for in-laws to arrange their engagement is to arrange an engagement party that includes in-laws, children and several close relatives. One is to meet in-laws and the other is to discuss the wedding date. Usually, the parents of the man should bring four-color gifts at the banquet, that is, cigarettes, wine, sugar, tea, and 20,000-30,000 cash gifts to the parents of the woman. Relatives of both parties testified at the scene and collected them on the spot. At the same time, the woman's parents will return 6000- 10000 yuan in cash to the man on the spot, and the rest will be used as a bride price to buy the groom's dowry and wedding dress.
After the two sides have done this, it proves that parents have accepted and recognized their children's marriage, and then they will agree on the wedding date, how to handle it and so on. At the end of the engagement party, the woman's parents must prepare four-color gifts for the man in the cereal in the bottle. This four-color gift is cigarettes, wine, sugar and a piece of meat from my mother. Li Niang's meat is a good four-rib meat, which is split in the middle with a knife, but the base is still connected and tied with ribbons. At the bride's house, the bride's mother scalded the meat with boiling water, split it, left half, and gave the other half to the groom to take back. This means that the two sides have changed from strangers to acquaintances, and the daughter is about to leave home.
Four. wedding ceremony
Weddings usually start at 1 1:30 in the morning and are presided over by the wedding master. The most important ceremony is that the witness asks for marriage. Generally speaking, a respected person will be invited as a witness. Next, the parents of both sides took the stage. The bride and groom served tea and changed their names to their parents. Parents give red envelopes and ask for change. It usually contains 100 1 yuan, which means one thousandth. Wealthy families also give 1000 1 yuan, which means one in a million.
Finally, the bride and groom exchange rings and propose a toast. After the wedding, the wedding reception began. The bride and groom raised their glasses from the table where their elders sat until the wedding reception was successfully concluded. There are few new houses in this city now. After the wedding reception, everyone went their separate ways.
Five, go back to the door
The bride stayed at her husband's house for two days. On the third day, she will go back to her parents' home, which is called going home. At home, the bride's parents' family will prepare delicious food for the bride and groom, or invite the bride's relatives and family to a restaurant for dinner. Only in this way can the whole process of marriage be finally completed.