It's best to ask the woman what to prepare at home first, so as not to be fully prepared, and everyone will be unhappy and embarrassed. In Hefei, it is customary to bring a hen with a knife and a rooster. Of course, you need to prepare more money for the crack of the door. Put a small amount of money first, and then put a lot of money without opening the door. Small money can be wrapped in five dollars and ten dollars, just for fun. For her brother or younger brother to carry the door and suitcase, the bridesmaid usually has 200 to 500 more money. Others will give everyone red envelopes, especially the younger generation and children, to show that you are polite and respect her family. In short, according to your own economic situation, discuss with the woman more, even if there is anything wrong, the woman will help you.