Heze wedding custom 1: engagement
That is, relatives of engaged men and women have dinner together, and the man's house hosts them. On the day of engagement, the man gave the bride price to his family. The gifts in Heze City are generally 66,000, 88,000, 654.38+008,000, etc. Of course, there are more or less. This is all a personal discussion. If the woman asks, she has to buy a car and a house. However, whether the woman asks for it or not, the modern wedding garage has become a necessity. In addition to these gifts, men's relatives, seven aunts and eight aunts, also give women red envelopes, usually hundreds or thousands at will.
At noon, the engagement party is over, and then the man takes the woman to pick up the plane to buy clothes, that is, three gold hardware. Buying a few carats of diamond ring or something depends on your economic level.
The engagement is over! Generally, both men and women choose a day to take wedding photos after marriage.
Heze Marriage Custom 2: Choosing an auspicious date to get married.
Next, the man's family is responsible for choosing the wedding day. After the date is determined, the parents of the man go to the woman's house to send another gift, which can be slightly less than the engagement gift, but the starting price is 1 ten thousand yuan! It can also be more, and then the man and the woman discuss it.
Besides, you should also send some other things, such as quilts, which can be used to get married. Because getting married in a foreign country, the customs are different, saving a lot of etiquette, and the details are not clear! If the woman agrees to get married on the date of her choice, she will accept gifts and things, which is good. I'm sure I'm getting married.
Heze Wedding Custom 3: Wedding Day
On the first day of marriage, both men and women will invite friends to play at home and have fun. Many men will stay up late here because Heze's daughter-in-law has to get up early and punch in at five or six or four or five in the morning.
When I get to the bride's house, I need ink for a while, all for excitement. When the bride's maid of honor closes the door, there is no "Don't let us in". The man stuffs a red envelope or asks the groom to sing "What fun!
After the groom walked in, the bride didn't wear shoes. It is the rule of Heze to wear green shoes in the sedan chair. And this pair of shoes is hidden by the woman, so that the groom can find them for the bride to wear.
Before the bride leaves, she must have dinner with her family. This is our home. She can't eat at all, but she can't eat. Do not get married on an empty stomach. Take a lunch box with noodles in it. When I get to my husband, I want to eat my first meal.