Hello, every place is a custom of every place, and it is different. In Pingding, Shanxi, we married our daughter with gifts. On the wedding day, parents and relatives will bring back the gift money to their daughters, and we will also tell the man's family how much money and things they brought back. When we go home, parents and friends in our village will bring back presents. This gift will not be brought back, and parents will have to return it later. This is just my personal suggestion. I wish you happiness.