Today, Bian Xiao will talk about some problems when newlyweds accept gifts at the wedding. The gift is asked by the university. If the newlyweds don't behave well when accepting gifts, it is easy to have embarrassing scenes and behave impolitely. If they don't know how to do it well, let's learn what newlyweds should do when receiving gifts and the details that should be paid attention to.
Four major quarrels at the wedding banquet
1. How to divide the gift money?
If the two parties jointly hold a wedding reception, there will be a problem of how to collect the gift money. If the man doesn't take the initiative to present the gift, the woman intends to separate the gift because it is inconvenient, which is likely to cause unhappiness for both parents.
At this time, in order to avoid the problem of money hurting feelings in the future, the woman may wish to suggest that after receiving the gift money in a unified way, the two sides should handle the accounts separately on the grounds that parents will make a reference for future gifts.
2. Distant relatives, transportation and accommodation problems
If the woman's family and friends come from other places to eat, accommodation and transportation are a lot of money. Therefore, it is necessary to consider whether it is all borne by the man. Whether this person can eat or not.
3. Prevent photos from being taken only by the other family.
Many times, people will feel uncomfortable when they look at the photos of the wedding reception that day, because they are all photos of each other's families, but their relatives and friends have taken so many. Therefore, it is suggested that both men and women should find someone who knows their relatives and friends to help them take pictures, so as not to cause such regret!
4. Jewelry was stolen
There was an endless stream of people coming in and out of the couple's room, and the wedding scene was also crowded with people. Precious things may be stolen, and the bride may be nervous and blame others when she finds that things are not successful. So it's best to arrange a relative to keep precious jewelry in advance.
Matters needing attention in receiving gift money
1. When guests send cash, they often put it in their luggage. Should it be counted when it is received? If it is not counted in time, will it cause confusion in the accounts?
It is impolite to count the cash in front of the guests, but not counting it will also cause confusion in the final accounts. The best way is for one person to receive the gift money, mark the guest's name on the red envelope when receiving it, and then give it to another person to take it into the lounge for counting and accounting.
2. If a guest sends a gift in the form of a cash check, should the check be put with the cash? Do you need to check the checks received at that time?
Checks are small in size, and if they are mixed with a lot of cash, they are easy to lose. Therefore, a special bag should be prepared to store the check separately from the cash. It is also better to distinguish different kinds of checks, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to handle them in the future.
When receiving the check, the inspector can roughly check the details such as the head or signature on behalf of the newcomer, and whether the check can be cashed is more suitable for the newcomer to go to the bank afterwards.
3. If the guests send expensive jewelry, they usually choose to wear it directly for the newcomers, so is it unnecessary to use jewelry gifts?