How much does it cost to get married in Wenzhou? A young man who just got married in June, 5438+last year 10 roughly calculated his wedding expenses: the new house cost 3.5 million, the decoration cost 300,000, the bride price and the woman's jewelry cost 300,000, the red envelope wedding candy cost 200,000, and the wedding etiquette cost 6.5438+0.7 million. As a result, it has cost 4.47 million yuan, of which he personally took out 300,000 savings, and the rest had to be borne by his parents. In addition, the man's family spent more than 400 thousand on the banquet, but fortunately, the recovery of human feelings offset it, and it was similar.
The high cost of marriage is mainly due to three factors: the woman cares about the house, the man values the car and eats guests to watch the banquet. According to a real estate agent in Wenzhou, young people are getting married now. If it is a date, the woman mainly depends on the location of the man's new house. In Wenzhou, a woman's dowry is mostly a car, but in a city with famous cars, if the "brand" is poor, it will be very embarrassing. Audi, BMW, Mercedes-Benz, Lexus and other high-end cars are popular wedding cars, but they are all expensive. Wenzhou wedding usually needs two tables of banquet. The first time was engagement wine, which was given to the guests for free. The second time was a wedding wine, a gift. Regarding whether the wedding can be simple, the parents interviewed expressed their helplessness. If they eat the banquet of friends and children, they have to "invite them back", otherwise they will be gossiped. Being gossiped is the most unbearable thing for Wenzhou people.
From the above, we can know the reasons for the high cost of marriage in Wenzhou. This kind of fatigue lies in Wenzhou's high housing prices, famous cars and high consumption, as well as the wind of comparison in the streets. It is still difficult for the older generation in Wenzhou to change the traditional concept and let the children suffer and make money by themselves. The growing post-80s and post-90s are the opportunities to change ideas. As long as today's young people establish the concept of letting their children grow up independently, there is still great hope for the next generation to gradually get rid of the subconscious of "gnawing at the old".