According to our custom, the first wedding is to choose a date, then have breakfast at the groom's house on the morning of the wedding, then pick up the bride at the bride's house, and then pick up the bride at the bride's house after lunch. If it is from other provinces, or the journey is long, the groom will find a local hotel to let the bride stay, and then the groom will pick up the bride at the hotel on the wedding day. Then dinner is the most important thing, and the dishes eaten on the wedding night are also the most abundant.
If it is a second marriage, there is also pressure. If one party is married for the first time and the other party is married for the second time, it can't be held in the morning like the first marriage, but only in the afternoon, and it won't be particularly big, that is, the parents, relatives and friends of the bride and groom will have dinner together. After all, one of them is married for the first time, and the red envelope is still given, which is also an explanation and fairness for the couple who are married for the first time.
If two people get married for the second time, we don't have a banquet here, so we should keep a low profile. There won't be so many wedding cars. Basically, only parents and important relatives come to dinner, and friends generally don't come. Customs vary from place to place, but in any case, the second marriage is not shameful and worthy of blessing.
In any case, there is no shame in getting married. Everyone has the right to pursue a happy marriage. As long as you go through the legal marriage formalities, you will be protected by law and will be blessed by everyone.
If remarriage is only to collect bride price money by offering wine, there will definitely be most unhappiness. On the contrary, if the wedding banquet is informed in advance that no gifts will be received, only blessings will be received, and the 68-table banquet will definitely be full.
However, if you take the second marriage as an opportunity to make money, it is easy to arouse others' resentment. After all, second marriage is not equal to first marriage. Although modern people are more open-minded, the phenomenon of second marriage has become very common.
But in people's minds, the first marriage should be held vigorously. After all, there is only one life. But some people regard second marriage as a step to make a lot of money. Once here, the woman got married for the first time and the man got married for the second time, because the man was ok in society at first and did some business. He is also famous in our small county. At that time, the wedding was very grand.
After two years, the man cheated on the woman's best friend and was caught red-handed, and then this short marriage ended. Not long after, the man found another woman, which was also a big deal. But it is obvious that many people lose face and give less gifts. The result of making a lot of money is sad.
Personally, I feel that the second marriage is not suitable for catering, so I can invite friends and relatives with good relationships to have dinner. Or two people go out to travel and get married, which can relax well. It also increases the affection between two people.
So what I want to say is that we should have a measure of ourselves. If you don't measure your savvy first, you should book so many tables blindly ... it's better to keep a low profile.