So, some people look forward to the future. After the epidemic, weddings and funerals in rural areas will be simplified and population gathering will be reduced. If you ask me, there is no such possibility. This is because:
Marriage in rural areas is a traditional culture that needs to be continued.
As long as it is not superstitious, ignorant, decadent and vulgar, it is traditional culture. That is, we often say benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, faith, loyalty, filial piety and so on. , can guide our life and work. Paying attention to filial piety is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. In rural areas, the procedures of white affairs are lengthy and there are many ceremonies, especially when relatives wear mourning halls, which can reflect filial piety, which is also the inheritance of traditional culture; All the traditional marriage customs permeate it? Filial piety? And then what? Etiquette? It's just that times have changed and it's a bit trite.
Normal weddings and funerals are the spiritual bond that maintains the whole village. Show this? Group? Cohesion, young and old will gather from different directions to create an atmosphere of incomparable unity and friendship. Weddings and funerals are not feudal superstitions, but belong to traditional culture and are also left by ancestors. They are instructive to future generations and still need to be passed down.
It is a hotbed for rural areas to compare with each other to do weddings, funerals and funerals.
Living conditions in rural areas are better now. Whether it is red or white, there are more banquets and more passengers, which is a face. Almost do your best, and you must do what you can. Nowadays, weddings pay attention to the scene, the number of banquets and meals, the grade of alcohol and tobacco, the team to be married and the atmosphere of the wedding. White matter is more special, item? Thick burial and thin burial? Type forward. Coffins are usually made of pine, and the body wakes up for at least 4 days and is buried on the fifth day. On the fourth day of the banquet, the trumpet suona will be played all day, and some will invite a band. The old man's funeral? Happy event? Do it, there are many children. Filial piety? In another way. Then it leads to the scale of weddings and funerals between neighbors to locate the degree of filial piety and the economic situation of the family.
The ceremony of rural weddings and funerals has been practiced for many years. An epidemic can neither dispel parents' pride and joy in their children's marriage, nor let their children be sent away by the elderly who have worked hard all their lives in this grand way. Although the deceased old man doesn't want his children to be in debt, and their children may feel guilty, they always want to be around the old man. Death? In this matter, show your mind. This also forces them to think calmly about one thing: it is far more filial to make the old people happy when they are alive than to hold a grand funeral for them after their death. Therefore, after this epidemic, although it can't completely change the way of handling weddings and funerals, it will at least shake people's extravagance and waste. It turns out that weddings and funerals can be simple!