Parents and important family members of both sides should meet and have a meal, and the man should prepare alcohol and tobacco. Prepare the bride price, and the mantissa of the bride price usually ends with 8 or 6, such as 8888, 6666, 888 and 666.

There is also the need for both parties to find a matchmaker, regardless of gender. The matchmaker conveys opinions on behalf of both parties. For example, what the woman or her family wants, the amount of dowry and so on. Will be conveyed to the man through the media. After the trial, both parties should buy a suit of clothes or shoes for the matchmaker, and now they are all converted into cash, usually 200 yuan is enough.