As we often say, there is no end to learning, and there is a lot to learn in marriage preparation, but many skills and techniques you have mastered in your usual study can also be used in marriage preparation. Don't waste, prepare for the wedding and apply what you have learned.
1 data collection
In the face of countless newspapers and strange information on the internet, you can't catch them all in a limited time. Magazine, choose the one that suits you best; Website, participation popularity and word of mouth are all good, in fact, it is enough for preparing the wedding.
Newcomer recommendation: classified collection.
I collect information in chronological order. Pay attention to the news of the venue first, then the ring, wedding photography, and finally the wedding and honeymoon, so as not to distract yourself too much. After all, there are other jobs to do while preparing for marriage.
2 Learn to make tables
In the interview, we found that capable brides have made detailed EXCEL forms for their wedding preparations. It is very practical to record all the preparatory projects, contact personnel, progress and price payment, which is convenient for overall management.
Newcomer recommendation: learn to be an EXCEL madman.
When I got married, I made a lot of lists of wedding preparations according to the items. Including the previous price comparison, various processes and payment, wedding process, etc. I found that this can make the plan go on in an orderly way and I really have a watch in my hand, so I don't panic.
3 useful reference
The success of the wedding depends on whether it is suitable for the couple. Therefore, other newcomers must carefully consider their predecessors' weddings and do what they can. How to sublimate others instead of copying your own is the key.
Newcomer recommendation: recognize the difference between dream and reality
It is very important to keep the mood of pursuing wedding dreams and distinguish the gap with your own reality. I will pay special attention to those successful examples that are similar to my wedding venue style and wedding budget, which are really of practical reference value.
Learn to take notes.
We all have the habit of taking notes in class, and so do wedding preparations. If you can make some preparations in advance when you visit the venue, attend the wedding exhibition, understand the price and have a sudden inspiration, it is best to record the main points according to some projects.
Newcomer recommendation: multimedia intervention
The method of recording with paper and pen is inevitably monotonous. Bring a camera, mobile phone, video camera, etc. And record the favorite or valuable pictures directly in the form of images and add them to the wedding planning database as picture data. This is the method I recommend to you.
5 learn to pose
Marriage is a kind of commemoration, and taking photos to commemorate it is inevitable. How to show your own style requires some preparation. Especially the basic standing posture, walking posture and smiling manner can be practiced in front of the mirror. Only after this kind of practice can a star show all kinds of amorous feelings.
Newcomer recommendation: do more exercise and be less nervous.
Many newcomers think that doing some posture exercises will be unnatural and artificial. In fact, more practice can increase self-confidence. On the wedding day, you are not so nervous in front of the camera, but your smile is sweeter and more natural. Look at my photos.
6 holistic learning
Learning to make overall planning is the only way to improve the efficiency of wedding preparation and avoid mistakes. We must clearly analyze which projects should be dealt with first, which members should participate, which budgets can be saved and which ones should not be overspent.
Newcomer recommendation: form a wedding team
I invited some close friends with special skills to form a wedding planning team, assign roles, brainstorm regularly and come up with good ideas. Asking them to help share some can reduce their burden and improve their efficiency.
7 learning DIY
We all took handicraft classes when we were young, so it shouldn't be difficult to design and make our favorite wedding supplies. As long as you have fresh ideas, the purchase of materials and the time of production, I believe you will find a way.
Newcomer recommendation: it is good to have your own characteristics.
In fact, my idea of DIY at that time was to hope that the wedding would have more characteristics of my own, so I specially collected all kinds of cute cartoon paper bags to hold our wedding candy. Although I didn't do anything, I packed so many boxes myself, which is a kind of DIY.
8 learning etiquette
The etiquette mentioned here includes not only the etiquette that the couple should pay attention to in the wedding ceremony that day, such as cutting cakes and pouring champagne, but also many doorways for hospitality. Welcoming guests with a smile, making proper arrangements and seeing them off politely are all important topics in the wedding.
Newcomer recommendation: It is not surprising to be polite to many people.
On the wedding day, many relatives and elders of the other family will come, and some will meet for the first time. Be sure to pay attention to etiquette. We should be generous and decent in arranging seats, leading seats and giving gifts, so as to leave a good impression on everyone.
skill
Avoid challenges and difficulties.
The time to prepare for the wedding is still limited for most couples, and the wedding is not a show, so there are still some performances and programs, so don't spend too much time. Especially some multimedia programs, besides PPT, you also invite professionals to produce them.
To make a proper comparison, amateurs often end up thankless.
Learning related experience
If you have friends who are engaged in event planning or public relations promotion, make an appointment. Many wedding preparations are actually similar to these fields, and some successful experiences are also worth learning. These friends must also have some good ideas and practice methods to recommend to them.
You can't miss it.
Improve learning efficiency
Although we should have an open mind to study in the face of preparing for the exam, the learning efficiency should be improved. I have to distinguish between what I have to learn and what has nothing to do with my wedding. If you just feel fresh or envious and blindly learn something, it is easy to get stuck.
Put the cart before the horse.