First of all, the 50,000 yuan bride price in Ganyu is now below the average, and it is really not much. It seems that your mother is a reasonable person.
The second red envelope, because you are a foreigner, is a foreigner to Ganyu, although you are also from Jiangsu. You can't give it. It is understandable that you are a foreigner after all. Children with sisters can give one hundred, and children can give less. Now let me talk about a key issue. This is a very formal visit to his home. The custom of Ganyu is that the elder of your boyfriend must give you a red envelope, and the red envelope must be given to you.