The custom of engagement, to be honest, depends on every family, whether it is in the countryside or in the town. A family with more rules means more rules. Modern enlightened parents follow simple principles. However, in order to reduce the burden on children, everyone has a lot of face. The normal and necessary process is as follows: the man's parents ask the woman's parents to meet and discuss. Before that, it is necessary to prepare a big red envelope or a jewelry for the woman, usually a necklace or ring, and then make an appointment. The man invites the woman's family and their close relatives to dinner. If you have special requirements, you have to send alcohol and tobacco. If you want to walk through this door, you just need to visit your home. The rest depends on your mother-in-law's special requirements.